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I had a couple, in my area, that we were interested in, send us a "Interested". I replied Interested If and politely ask if they could post or email us a photo. Several days passed and I reciveved another Intrested from the same couple. This time I requested to be their friend. A few days go by and I don't hear anything. Then today another Interested and I happened to be on when it showed up. So I messaged them thanking them for the Interested and we would love to chat. They wrote back saying they are not interested and never sent one Interested. Has anyone else had this happen and what did you do to stop yourself from sending them a "fuck you" message because it kind of pissed me off. |
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hi, wow thats strange sweety, i never had that , but would have felt the same, hope they see this then lol maybe they were new and was trying to figure out the website and was pushing wrong buttons, i don't know, this ones a tuffy to figure out, but i personaly wanna know now!!!! don't let that detour you thou, i have had other things happen thats weird, some i think are mean, some, some talk a lil bit, then fly away, this is a very complicated LIfestyle, and really i feel some don't know what the hell they are doing!!!!!! lol lol :butterfly:
by the way, yall are a cute couple and very sweet it seemed, i'd say "Fuck em" but not dirrectly at them, unless they kept bothering you, or block them.
Goodluck yall!!!! keri |
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I think that sometimes if you look at a profile from the "looks" or the other little flag above that icon...it automatically sends the interested..bcs I have had it happen a few times. It's odd but makes you a little wary of wanting to look at a profile just because they looked at you. The one time that apparently we sent an "interested" to someone. It was someone that we simply looked back at the profile. |
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Thanks for commenting. I have blocked them because if what misplacedtxn1969 is saying below happens, then the next time they go to view our profile they wont be able to and the Intrested being sent by accident wont either. Thanks the kind words. We do consider ourselves worth meeting and put ourselves out there for all to look at in hopes we get some interest. Apparently this couple was just enjoying looking at out photos so yeah Fuck em...lol |
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How could they not be interested........looks good from here. :) I agree....I think it sends an auto message when someone looks at your profile. :( |
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I think it has happened to us when we view profiles. We DO NOT use the interested button, I prefer to send a message to someone but we have received replies saying thanks for your interest etc... the first couple of times I thought my man did it and asked what interested him about the couple etc... and he replied that he didn't send it but may have looked at their profile. |
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I've heard more than once that there is some sort of automated thing that sends "interested" messages. That would explain lots of the blank stares. If such a thing does exist, it should be destroyed at once. Come to think of it, the whole "interested" thing should be vanished along with those stupid glitter flirts. People shouldn't have an alternative to actual communication. |
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Another option for you is you can go into your profile settings and turn off the ability for others(and yourself in the process) from sending the generic interested. If they are interested they can send you a regular message. Would take the guess work out of the possibility ghost interested's :) |
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IronFitter. I will look into to that and your right, if they are truely interested they would sen a message. That's how we do it. Have a great weekend! |
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I agree 100% that they could do away with the Intrested and the Glitter. Just send a message if you ar intereted, it is a little more personal that way. Thanks for commenting, have a great weekend! |
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Hi, I know what you mean, I've had a certain couple send me three interested requests, but have never replied to any of my messages, I just gave up in the end. |
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Hi all..this happens to us all the time too...at first we got excited until we realized they never answer if u send it back...now we just delete them |
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I get a little fed up with people doing that, I have often asked myself whether or not they actually meet or just look at the pictures. |
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I get a little fed up with people doing that, I do wonder if they actually meet or whether it's just an excuse to look at peoples pictures. |
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