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Just wondering how you all juggle your "normal" life with the swinging one. Do you ever mix the two?
We usually try not to mix the two, however we have made some amazing friends through here and have met each others kids, had BBQ's and just enjoyed spending time as friends. We have found it difficult lately to find the time AND energy to head out to the club.
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I really can't introduce my swinging life into my private life as I deal with issues that would well...be touchy. I do however share that life with people here as it can help, educate, or even bring awareness to certain topics and concerns that some struggle with. I also cannot mix my swing life with my bondage group in my area...it is truly on a case by case basis with them!
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Sharon
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i think hanging out is sooooooooooooo much better then those stupied clubs where you spend a fortune on stuff and then all you come across is assholes and bitchs , so having bbqs and doing stuff with friends is soooooooo better, i feel, but yeh its tough to have the lifestyle, but you gotta leave time for regular family stuff and of course kids come first!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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They don't mix well. |
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We have come across friendships that work when mixed and ones that dont. I like to think that we are a good judge of character. As for the clubs from the previous post, I don't think people are assholes or bitches at the club. Yes, the odd person..but I find people are a lot nicer to each other then at a normal club..no doubt because they want to have sex with ya!..lmao |
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I think it depends on what you mean by mixing the two. I have swinger friends I see at non swinging events, swingers friends that have met my kids and my parents but I have never hosted a party and had both swinger and vanilla friends in attendance. |
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Our friends are our friends. They know there is a time to swing and a time to just enjoy our families together. So yes they mix sometimes. When vanilla friends are mixed in, then discretion is understood. That's just the way we roll. lol We prefer our swinging partners be friends with benefits that way we get to see them more often in most cases. It can forms strong bonds between couples.
Dale & Margaret |
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Friends are easy to balance for me. It's the home/ school/ work/ and other work that I cannot merge lol
Sharon |
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I was curious about that in why is it not acceptable to mix bondage and swinging? I was married a second time and a few times while on the truck I had her stand up pull her pants down and I smacked,I got really turned on raging hard on. So I don't understand why not.. SugarBear :) |
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Well, I don't understand why either. But... when I bring up the discussion of swinging with my Bondage buddies they have the idealistic attitude that swinging is just sex parties and I take the opportunity to try to educate them. Of course, your talking alternative lifestyles with a bunch of Bible-Thumpers.....some do understand, but it is amazing how this group is soooo closed minded!
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Sharon |
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Hmmm Bondage and Bible-Thumpers is not two things I would consider two groups together kinda funny and ironic SugarBear. :) |
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I can totally see Sharon's point as die hard bondage does not include sex. We have a group of swinger friends that are also into fetish which includes bondage etc... they seem to mix it up well. As with everything though the right connection is important. |
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Sure is, that's why it's hard to understand yet respect their closed minded ways. lol
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Sharon |
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Well If I meet someone like that hope you will be close by to hold my hand so I don't say something stupid lol I'm sure I can learn a few things from you on the subject SugarBear :) |
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That'll be easy, just have to keep your mouth full of something so you can't say anything **grinz**
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Sharon |
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Lol oooh yeah I'm sure we can think of something any suggestions :grinz: SugarBear :) |
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Well, keeping with the original post you can juggle my boobies in your hands...that's a good start. Where to go from there? ummmmmm.
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Sharon |
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Two Munches. (PARTIES) Both have dungeons.
# 1, A BDSM clique. Once a month munch. Open to members, all month. The host told me, she saw sex, once, for the fun of it, in the year she was host. I also never received my members card, as I should of.
# 2, Once a month Munch and altering weekends a swing party. They have stopped the swing parties, because of conflict between the two. Their swing parties are now posted, private.
How do you tell your vanilla friends that, you want to be spanked till your ass is black and blue, and then fucked the person, or couple, that did it?
To answer the thread, you don't. A few, can look in the window. A very, very few, have been invited in, into my personal life.
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