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So as I am getting more comfortable within myself I am finding myself curious about "Orgies". Any experiences anyone would like to share, tips for hosting a party, dos or donts... Any thing anyone wants to share. |
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It's been awhile, however I hosted a few small parties back in 2003. The biggest tip is comfort. You get two people together, it's not too difficult to get naked. But you get a group together, there is the chance everyone can freeze. I found at the time (as this was pre-fiancee', so I was on my own in getting people comfortable as I was the lone host), that there really was 3 things that helped.
1.) Alcohol
2.) Party Games
3.) Porn
So what we would do is as people would arrive, have alcohol on hand for people to enjoy, and we would have porn running on the television. As everyone arrived, we would do games like strip poker and truth or dare. It normally didn't take long until everyone was naked and having a really good time.
So that's my tip - be prepared before anyone gets there for people to freeze, and be ready to make be comfortable even before they walk through your front door.
Oh - and have condoms on hand, somewhere very visible and easy for everyone to reach. A lot of time people don't think to bring them out of excitement or just not used to taking a box of condoms with them to a party.
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I think Redman had some great tips for hosting! I've never been to an "Orgy party" but during a swinger get together I have participated in an orgy. Comfort is a major factor to many participating...but also a factor to even attempt to join in. The one I was involved with was in an open room of play, they just post up midway through the night "Orgy Room" and people just gravitated towards that area. During the event, you have to be prepared as sometimes you may not know who's the one touching you at the moment, so the comfort zone is necessary as well as having respect for others. I had heard from one place that they had to kick someone out because he would be "sticking his fingers where they didn't belong" (and before anyone asks, it was a married guy)so just be cautious as to whom is invited or included.
Sharon :love: |
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I'll only add to what has been said.
I would call The Room, The Play Room. Open door only. So people can watch and or join in. Set up one or more rooms for a little one one one time, close door option.
Ask your guests what they want to drink, before, they arrive, their flavor. Not everyone drinks Bud, or Pepsi.
Munchies. Cheese and veggies. Maybe cold cuts.
Don't forget the lube! Again, their brand, if you can. K-Y, Astroglide, and my favorite Intrigue.
Condoms, don't forget magnums. I was at a party and one guest could not play, nothing fit him.
The two hard parts, getting everyone to show and getting them out of their cloths. Have someone that likes to be topless. Some times it's ALL about getting the first person out of their cloths or the first couple to play.
B Bopp
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RE: Three-somes or more....
All very great ideas and thoughts for me to bring up with my hubby.
Thank you for any and all ideas
D |
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Have an awesome and sexy time! |
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So seriously considering hostessing a meet and greet. And see how it goes. Any sugestions? |
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Find people that will actually show!
I know a couple that had hosted a M&G bi weekly and a party once a month in Maui.
In Colorado, they got little and no responses. I know, more then 20 couples, invites went out.
Even if only a few couples show, the first time, the next one will be better |
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Wow this was a great question. We are actively looking for threesome (actually have a first lined up) but have an orgy fantasy too. This was good to read and get tips. Thanks everybody! Kim and Dave |
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Hi! In the past not only did we attend a few house parties but host some ourselves, most turned out to be orgies! When we hosted we played games to break the ice. The big dice are a nice icebreaker. At most parties it seemed once one got naked we all did! :) |
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