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What makes a guy a "Select Male"? Besides being "Selected" by someone for something. Pretty sure I'm one...who am I kidding? I know I am! |
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Good job on that! |
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Totally agree with you guys..the single guy must get to know my hubby, or it ain't gonna happen...we have done the 3 some thing before...and not ruling it out....but for all those that look at our profile..be fore warned..get to know my hubby first!!!....Then you will get to know me...Like our profile states "swing with a strong rope"..meaning be secure in your relationship...xoxo Shirley |
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Now that I have Sharon I agree with you Shirley. But don't think I forgot about my single days on this site. It's really hard being a nice guy and trying to get noticed here. But I'm glad I found people like You and Clark to be friends with. So for the singles here. Make friends first, The rewards are beyond your wildest dreams once you are accepted. Take my word for it, I've been there.
Todd. |
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Sorry...we're only looking for a female to join us now...thanks.....BillBeth |
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Definately get to know Russ... Cuz I rarely do the chat thing and if You don't talk to him, you won't talk to me.
I think the most important thing for single guys to remember, is there are ALOT of you in this lifestyle, and if you aren't repectful of us as a couple, we can just move on to the next one.
That may be cold, but that's the way it is.
Have a great day
Huggs,
Karen |
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I think that's generally the consensus. I too, being the technical savvy and outgoing one am usually the one online. We don't rule out single guys but it goes through me first then I show the profile to my wife. I'm in "the people business" and am a pretty good judge of character. I can usually tell right of the bat if the single guy is just some horny stud or if he's actually a solo lifestyler.
We also play solo sometimes so I totally understand the plight of the single guy. So I try not to be too harsh. Sometimes, the guy my be placed in a "holding pattern" until she's ready to play then we make arrangements. |
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for all of you who don't know me ...I'm ken ..lol ...hehe oh i'll bet that is not quite enough lol...
love ya all
Ken the duckster |
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Here ducky, ducky....xoxo Shirley |
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You might say I've been in the lifestyle Most of my life. I just thought sex should be fun with out all the hang up's. My first couples, I was still in my teens. Or married wives. When I met my late wife of 20 years, I was seeing a married couple for months. With in 24 hours of meeting, we knew our bed was not just built just for two. But we were not in the lifestyle and didn't know how to meet people that thought like us.
As much as I'd like to find my perfect single lady or couple and live happily ever after. I still would like to have fun. Not easy for a single guy. |
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First and foremost it starts with your profile, it ust have pics and not just your cock. It also must be written and yes spelling does count. One line profiles just don't fly, It's your intro to get people to think about wether they even want to try to get to know you. Be polite and above all respectful and non-pushy.
Dave |
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Couldn't have said it better myself. And gentlemen trying to see the lady on the side ... bad idea, what are you thinking? |
RE: What makes a "Select Male"?
Definately get to know Russ... Cuz I rarely do the chat thing and if You don't talk to him, you won't talk to me.
I think the most important thing for single guys to remember, is there are ALOT of you in this lifestyle, and if you aren't repectful of us as a couple, we can just move on to the next one.
That may be cold, but that's the way it is.
Have a great day
Huggs,
Karen
VERY WELL SAID KAREN AND ITS ALOT MORE FUN BEING ON A BUDDY BUDDY RELATIONSHIP HAVE A GREAT DAY GUYS
ROB |
RE: What makes a "Select Male"?
As one of those single males, I find it uneasy BEING alone with one half of a couple. Until I know both!! I find it hard being with one and not knowing the other. Having both phone numbers and or two Emails, I will most likely relay messages until I know both and am comfortable with both. This is, only one half plays. With couples, I much prefer same room. Even if one watches. Knowing both is the key to the invites back.
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RE: What makes a "Select Male"?
First you have to be screened by my husband, get to know him, then get to know me and then I ultimately choose who is the chosen one. But you need to be honest and sincere, respectful, reasonable, not pushy or demanding, and be open to suggestions and requests. |
RE: What makes a "Select Male"?
For a single guy or a couple for that matter to just try to see just one half of a couple is wrong! |
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