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I was just curious, when one half of a couple signs their emails do you write both names or just your own? Is there a way for the person receiving the email to know who actually wrote the email?
I today wrote one just a "nice to meet you" kinda thing and I wrote Sharon and Todd.... but should I write something like "Sharon with the absence of Todd" since he wasn't around and hasn't a clue I wrote them?
Truthfully there IS no definitive way to know who actually writes it but still... I'm sorta wondering others thoughts on this!
:coolbabe:
Sharon |
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I would say, if it's just you talking, then sign with just your name. If your talking for your other half, then sign both names. Most couples don't have two accounts, it's nice to know which half I'm talking to.
B Bopp |
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I think the person writting should sign. Iam known as "babs" with the absence of a husband. I do understand why seeing as his pics are not up ( unless requested private photos) he also does
Not often chat on here. He will send out the odd ( and I mean VERY odd) email and will sign as the ( Mr.)
He does come on and read my posts in the forums and I know when hes away and bored goes through my emails. ( which I totally OK with)...he is away right now..."Hi baby!!! Miss you!!!"
Him chatting on here just is not his thing. There for, when I sign babs, it is always me.
And funny enough, and the swingers club, I have had a few people who actually call me babs! Lmao |
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hi I (male) believe that if your honest with your partner and are sharing this "lifestyle" together as you should be as a true couple, all notes should be signed by both names. Even if it's written by one of you. In our relationship I do almost all of the emailing because she is just not a fan of the computer, but we talk about every note I send either before or after it's sent.
J for J&P |
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Isn't that a little mis leading though? If I write A man and tell him how scrumptious he is, the LAST thing my hubby wants is him name on there. Not to mention on forums when I post opinions. They are MY opinions, not his. I'm sure he would disagree on some things and prefer I not put words in his mouth. Just my opinion. |
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When I write to someone. I always let them know who I am. I am on here more than Margaret, so she reads them later and gets caught up. I always sign emails "Dale & Margaret" because we come as a team. Even when I'm chatting in the forums I usually sign them "Dale" or "Dale & Margaret" if she's reading them with me. There really is no way to tell who your chatting with I guess. I'm pretty intuitive most of the time and can usually tell whether its a woman or a man by the tone of the writing, the words they use, the things they say, etc...but its not full proof! lol People just need to be honest and upfront.
Dale :hello: |
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I agree with you Babs "in your case" since you guys play alone sometimes. In that case, you signing an email to someone would be fine. With us, we come as a team, so we always sign it from both of us. If Margaret what's say something to some hot guy or girl, she just let's them know it's her. Communication is key. And yes you are "scrumpdillyicious" my dear! This is Dale writing, but Margaret will read it later! lol
Dale |
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LMAO
Well, I guess we can all agree that each couple would sign different according to their circumstances!
( wow, was that just me agreeing to something??...;) |
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Most times I will use both names and usually just initials til I know someone. All the forum answers come from me (the Mrs) just not his thing.
I would never send correspondance to a man just from me as I feel it gives the wrong impression. We are a team in all areas. He either reads the emails or I fill him in on anything I have done.
If another women on here writes to me then I answer with name alone. |
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Todd and I, since we had our own accounts on here before we met...we keep postings on the forums here 95% on our individual logins....however every once in awhile if one of us doesn't log out their is a faux pas....although I downloaded a browser for all my stuff to avoid it!
As for emails, I've never signed his name until today!
Sharon |
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When married, I akways signed: Aj of Aj & Ginger |
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Since we have 2 accounts here, when we get separate emails from someone, we sign both names(If it was sent to me, I sign my name first, then Clark's & vice versa). Once each of us gets to know someone, we might sign separately (with the understanding they know we are a cpl).
As far as in the forums...well, don't need to say anymore!! lol lol lol
Good post Sharon!! :bigkiss: Shirley |
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I like that!
:coolbabe:
Sharon |
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I (Mrs) am generally the one on here so I will usually sign my name first then his when I am comfortable enough to use our names, after talking to him. Same if I'm just using our initials. Generally we are sitting together if we're chatting, though he's doing the typing for us both, since he types faster than me, and we tell the person(s) we chat with ifwe are both here . I will also start a message with 'hi Mrs here...' if I am speaking for myself only, as well as when I'm speaking for us both when he's away for work. We may play solo at times, but only after both of us are comfortable with the person. |
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On the initial contact I sign S&J ... once a connection has been made I sign Shawna (and John). John does visit ST often, however, has never visited a forum and rarely (and that's really never) writes a message. I am the one who does the communicating ... mostly 'cause he's at work during the day and I am at home. :) |
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Our "rule" is, whenever either one of us sends out an email or reply, "Who ever sends it, signs it with their name first and their partner in parenthesis"
Carlos (& Lisa) |
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Well for us, i only mostly use my name, cuz im the one who always talks, charlie jus dont get into it, i mean hes ok with it , i tell him storys all the time about what we talk about, or who i meet, now if we are asking something serious like recently the prayers, thats coming from both of us so ill say yeh, keri and charlie, but mostly its jus lil ol me chit chatting away with yall, he dont mind , hes so busy working too, so when he comes home and tells me about his day , well ill teel him a lil bout what yall have been cutting up with here on ST and he loves to here it and somtimes he'll come see some pics or something, but he kindof leaves it for me to play with, its like my toy!!! lol lol lol but, when i talk to someone or a couple, i be sure to add him in there as far as talking about him, i never try to leave him out, so yeh,but, signing, thatll be meeeeee!!!! keri :butterfly: |
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I rarely sign my name on here. If I send an email to someone I will sign my name. I do not sign anything Todd and Sharon very often but on occasion I will. |
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