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Been on this site about about month or so
We get E mails but there are No male photos
Or face photo just body parts .,we all no what they
look like . When we return E mail asking to see
phot of both G rated No reply
Does Anyone Ever Meet ???????????! |
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YES I HAVE MET PEOPLE AND HAVE HAD AMAZING EXPERIENCES
ROB |
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Those that are really serious about meeting will send photos.
Photos is a topic that shows up in forums a lot. There are good reasons why some, if not most, don't have face photos. I personally have been found here, by others from other sites, in part because of my photo. I have also had replies where my first name has been used.
A lot of us wander why couples don't have at least one photo of both? As for body part photos, I don't know. Maybe they think that is all they have to offer?
Meeting people can take time. Let people know your serious about meeting. Join the chat rooms. Join the forums. Let your selves be seen and let people get to know you that way. Lots of people read the forums, but few post. Every time you post, more people can see you. More people will check your profile.
ST is a very good site. There are a lot of good and real people here. I hope you find what your looking for.
B Bopp |
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I have meet, and i completely agree with B Bopp, i do hav face photo and i meet ppl via chat, local and international. There are ppl who take time to come up with face pics coz of some reason, but i do have my although in pvt, i tried to view ur profile but was blocked. In short the site does work. |
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We have meet some really great people off this site. Like bebop said it takes time sometimes. I know we take a lot longer before we will meet anyone because of our work and family schedules. I'm sure a few of the people we messaged with stopped cause we took to long to meet in person. The photo thing I don't get either. We request g rated photos right in our profile, I guess some people are more comfortable being a body part lol |
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Taking too long to meet us especially without keeping in touch,is always perceived as loss of interest. Just a thought, even in our daily life we are the type that buys things when we bump into them not when we need them.
It might seem a bit different, we have friends that go on "dates" with other cpls, 3 and even 4 before they 'do it" and we don't get it, they plan everything and their world crumbles when things don't fall into the right place...... Had a couple that came to meet us while in town to drop off someone at airport really upset that we slotted them in... we had 2 hr for coffee and thought why not? |
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Oh, to the original poster, we've never met someone on here, while on a trip to Edmonton we bumped at the club into the ST group, we made small talk, nothing memorable. On AFF, we've been members for 8 years, and met a few cpls but never played with one, although we eventually played with one cpl that we didn't click when met, but kept bumping into them at the club and we clicked there..... |
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I forgot to add, yes, I have met couples that are on ST, as well as others sites. |
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I have met several couples and singles from ST. Moreso from here than any other site. Personally I truly appreciate the meetings and get togethers from ST'ers as I have not only a physical relationship but also a emotional connection. However, if I was a quickie I can always rely on other sites for that they are by the abundance. For me, it is quality over quantity.
Sharon |
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It's true, people really do meet! We have met lots of people and have made great friends. Try getting involved with a group that meets for drinks to get to know each other.
Happy hunting,
Babs |
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Well I'm from no where, Podunk maybe lol When Shirley & I started swinging as if we were just born we started at aff & c4p,... What a fuckin joke they were... And then we landed at SwingTowns... We couldn't be more happier with SwingTowns... Good folks here from A 2 Z... Well I don't want 2 sound like an old whore dog 2 ya but SwingTowns has delivered so goods 2 Shirley & I...(Sharon), Ya said it best with your Wizadry! We takes Quality over Quantity ever Time! lol Looks like I'm about lit lol :beer: |
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Yes, we have met people from this site!!! Very good people, too!! Yes, some may not post feedback, but that's ok!! We still talk to people that have left this site!! We have face shots, as well as a pic of both of us together! It's G rated photo!! But it's us!! lol lol xoxo Shirley |
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And beautiful people u r |
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We havent met anybody from here yet but hopefully we will |
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I met Sharon here when I was I single Man on this site. She moved in and never left. We have many good friends here and have met a few of them. We look forward to meeting more as time permits. Good luck in the hunt, It can be a challenge at times. But it is worth it.
Todd. |
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We have meet with several couples from this site for dinner and/or drinks. |
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I've met several people from st in person. It may be different (easier?) for me because I'm single, so open to meeting both couples and single men. Seems like a lot of people are looking for a single woman to play with a couple... I'm not looking to be the 2nd woman in a private 3some; doesn't appeal to me. But I've met and played with couples at parties. People do meet. I'm very happy to have met some wonderful people via this site. |
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All the best in ur search or hunt, hope u get someone bfr the newyear starts so that u can start a new search in new year |
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We have met people on here and also know people that we met at clubs that are on here now.
Be patient sometimes it takes awhile and sometimes it doesn't.
Everyone does have some sort of life outside the lifestyle and things do come up.
If you hang in there it will happen, also if they don't reply or send a face pic when you contact them and ask they are probably someone you don't really wanna meet any way.
Dave and Mary |
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We have met 2 couples. One from this site and one from another. I have learned to keep our introduction letters short because don't get that many replies from emails.
I agree with the photos as well. We are looking to meet friends first and if it goes farther great! We are not impressed with xxx photos placed on general viewing. Everyone is aware of anatomy and unless a one night stand is searched for, and even at that, anatomy photos are just showing us that that is the best that couple has to offer. I don't think my wife wants to have social fun with a dick or a pussy and I would be a bit embarrassed being out boating with just a vagina.
Are these people so ugly that they can't show face and body photos? Or is it that their personality sucks and the best they think they have is their anatomy? In either case, we won't waste our time corresponding with them, much less meet them.
We work very hard which means our social time is very valuable. We don't need others to fill a void. We are very happy with each other and have many non-lifestyle friends. We are in the lifestyle for fun only and if it seems like work, there are many other things we will opt to do instead.
When we do meet, we feel it is best for dinner because we have to eat any way and that way if it is a bust, it's no loss of our time.
I will give an example of what is apparently a waste of time in writing. A purported couple has a Harley for their default photo. Then there are his and hers anatomy photos. No face, no body pics and they are 200 miles away and they send us an email for us to meet (of course they refuse to even travel half way or at all. We request face and body photos. Nothing! Are we going to waste our time? Not no, but Hell no!
We are not against some distance travel because we like to see the country any way. Then we can meet somewhere for dinner and see if we have common interests.
I have done the wild times when in the lifestyle before when in the LS previously and in dating when I didn't even know the woman's name. Burned out from this and my current mate is new to LS and not going to subject her to that.
We are in the process of finishing our move and then we now have the holidays. I have some business travel I have to do and we have decided that by the third week in January we need fun. We will be going to a local club and see who we meet.
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We chose not to use anything but face photos, not for anything than our own discretionary choices. If someone requests more than just our two defaults we will send them as long as its not just the auto mail push button request. Also I have found through past experiences that as much as we all try, most people still have that gut physical attrition that if not there they will subconsciously slow contact. I have chatted with people and never seen a photo until the day a meet is set up. Also we have a shortage of pics of ourselves, which we hope to remedy now that holidays are over.
Neither of us has ever been accused of being ugly, nor raving beauties. I am best described as cute and innocent looking (if only people knew lol), and he is dark mysterious and handsome. |
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Thnxs for taking time to read i agree with u abt there are some ppl with that gut attrition for physical things but if u have a chemistry that attrition goes aways i had seen many ppl who are enjoying extrmely different body type its coz the person they knw and yes this site does have many openminded ppl and i do agree there would be some not but that does not means the end of the road u just need to be a lil patience...... happy hunting and happy new year |
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