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I had never heard of a man having a orgasm, or multiples without ejaculating until this weekend. What are your thoughts??? Men, have you done this??
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Absolutley. It's a climax rather than a ejaculation. There-in lies the ability to go and go and go.
Ejaculation is not always my ultimate goal. We ejaculate when we come to a point where we just can no longer hold it back, (control, control, control) or just decide to let it go. lol (Got to have some relief) lol Climax good/ejaculation bad.... lmao |
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Craziness I tell ya! I was with a man this weekend that went FOREVER. He has 2 orgasms but didn't ejaculate ( which apparently I am nieve, I had never heard of this with men..) finally after about 2 hours he asked if I had enough and I said "no". Asked again after about 2 1/2 and I was spent..it was rough, hardcore fucking. I was done...and then BAM, he ejaculates...talk about leaving a girl dazed and confused... |
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Just asked my man this question and he says NO he definately has not had a dry orgasm |
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I did some reading up on it, as I was kinda worried he faked it...lmao!!
Apparently it is a "trained" thing...when I went with him, his wife was giggling and said "you will be up there awhile, have fun"..
Didn't know what she meant at first...lol |
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Kegels. They're not just for women. |
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Apparently....LOL |
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I read a book years ago called "the multi-orgasmic man". It was quite interesting! And yes... It is possible for a man to do this. I think it would take lots of concentration though! From what I understand, if a man does his version of kegals just before he cums, there is no ejaculate, but still the same sensation as an orgasm. They can keep going and going, and cuming and cuming! Lol! A man like that would be good to find! Lucky lady!
Hugs- Shelley |
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Yeah....I think perhaps I will be trying him out again...;) |
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Interesting concept. I'll have to mention it to my friends! |
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Wow! It's never happened to me! Guess I better do some reading on this technique! LOL Sounds great to me!! You go girl!!!
Dale & Margaret |
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no i have never heard of it.......but i have had multiple orgasms while ejaculating
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been there and done that with my last girlfriend ......it definitly will leave a woman satisfied and wanting more of you.........thats for sure............ |
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been there and done that with my last girlfriend ......it definitly will leave a woman satisfied and wanting more of you.........thats for sure............ |
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I haven't heard of it this way but, there is another way I learned.
At the moment of orgasm, press, as deep, down in, the base/bottom of the cock. This will stop the ejaculation but not the orgasm. Saves the guy for round two or three. |
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Tantric sex involves a lot of dry orgasms to prolong the sex, can't say I was ever a big fan. There are a couple of ways to do it physically. 1. flex the muscle at the base of the penis (basically the same one that you would use to hold off urinating). For some, this can block the semen allowing for an orgasm without ejaculation. 2. Hold the base of the penis with with your fingers blocking ejaculation.
I've also managed to hold of mentally to where I felt the same pressure and feelings as an orgasm but without the ejaculation, but it just never feels the same afterward. It seems to take away a lot of the sensitivity. Maybe for some men it's different. |
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Maybe I'm alone in thinking this, but it seems to me that its cruel to cheat yourself out of a full orgasm. I know I wouldn't want to hold back when I'm on the verge of going over the edge; why would I want the guy I'm with to do that? If there's loss of sensitivity, then he's not even having as good of a time as before... that would make me feel selfish, if he was prolonging just for me.
Guys don't get to experience as many orgasms as we do... I think they deserve to enjoy the ones they have to the fullest. |
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Cupcake; you're alright in my book. The longevity part of it makes sense, but you have a point. In my marriage, my wife probably has 10 times the orgasms do. |
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Thanks Dark. She's a lucky woman. ;-)
I know that not all women achieve orgasm easily (I'm lucky too) so maybe it's worth it in that situation... it's gotta be frustrating as hell to get close and then have him finish and you never do... I think it'd be fair for the guy to put off his release in order for his partner to get there too...
But for me, an hour into it I'm spent! I've cum a dozen times, and am ready (begging) for him to cum too. |
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I enjoy long sex sessions meaning foreplay but not long fuck sessions, I just get bored and sore and am not impressed when a guy is trying to impress me with a marathon fuck.
I would also feel short changed if he didn't cum as this is what we have been working for, I like the feel of my partner cumming inside me, I also like to watch him cum on me etc...
For me I would much rather have one, two or even three sessions where he ejaculates rather than one long session with it. |
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without it....lol |
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I completely agree. Hours of sex is great, hours of just fucking... not so much.
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And one really spectacular orgasm can make more unnecessary... at least for a while. |
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And let's not underestimate the sexual fun of the occasional quickie. In the bedroom while the kids are still around, in a mall changing room, a public bathroom, etc. When the situation is right, it's all about the race to the finish line. |
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This was a guy I was with for the first time...and although I agree we should "cheat" someone put of a orgasam we seemed to he enjoying himself to me!! He was making me cum, and cum and cum. And he could have went for hours
More! He had orgasms which he did enjoy very much. I am sure he didn't feel ripped off. He asked when we could meet gain and that we should start earlier in the night.... |
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Normally I would agree. That's way way too long. If was the most interesting sex I have ever had. I have never slept with him, but do know him. He knows I was looking for a agressive male and blah blah blah..
Well, it was a power struggle unimaginable. It was long hard sex, and I was able to try things I had never experienced. After I found out they are into tantric and BDSM...made perfect sense. As for the bite marks on me..nothing a little coverup can't fix.. |
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Hmmm. I might need to meet this guy! |
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Glad to hear you FINALLY got fucked right.......
And yes, it's the same with me, on the first fuck with a lady it's all about her. And I love it.
It is keggels and the mental state I'm in. My buddies don't believe me, or Lulu's girlfriends when she tells them that we fucked for almost 3 hours the first time, I kept hard and fucked twice more(Lulu called in sick first time in years). Started just after 7 AM(we had no condoms the night before, went to the store at 6:30 AM LOL ) and went for lunch at 2PM. Just as the other lady, Lulu giggles, she knows the woman I'm with will have a good time.
The morning sex is mine(I love "molesting" Lu), afternoon is ours, and, at night is all about her......... Got in hot water when I once told her that I make love to every woman, but she's the only one I fuck. She agrees. |
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