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Feeling rebellious
Sometimes...I want to tell people about our lifestyle, just because I know it would piss them off.
I realize it is "private", but also a huge factor in our lives.
Ever want to out yourself? |
RE: Feeling rebellious?
Not really, I do not feel my 3 sons are at the age where they would have any understanding of our choices and the more people who know outside our circle of LS friends the more chance of our children knowing. When they are older and maybe married themselves I think I would be fine with it. |
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I guess my kids are so young I really never thought about that.
But I m getting tired of saying I'm "going dancing" and I can't dance, unless it's on a lap.
And I have googled nightclubs far too many times to cover my ass.
Just gets tiring.
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LOL but not too funny.
I've a few people I'd like to tell about the LS. And or that is the way I think. It is who they tell, that bothers me.
Where I live, the news paper only needs to go to the archives to run photos of me. I can see it now. The LS is alive and well, ask b bopp. No thanks
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Part of me was hoping I wouldn't get invited back for Christmas with my family??...hahaha |
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lmao
I have "outted myself" to some degree with family. They all know Todd and I met on an adult site (not a swinger site thou). They know that I am very open, and have many friends. I have yet to be not invited back however lol That'd be a blessing from my sister.
Sharon
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I always tell my kids that I'm going out with friends. Plain and simple... or I'll say "I need some adult company" No need to get into specifics!
Sharon |
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My children are aware that we go to couples only parties and dress in sexy themes each time. My mother is also aware that we belong to a couples only club. My boys also have meet several of our LS friends, they realize we are quite open with our adult conversations and that one of our good friends is a DOM. We are quite open with our boys when it comes to talking about sex etc... and do not have a problem sharing things with them when we sense they are at a maturity level to understand the topic. |
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My boss knows. Another employee that is also in the lifestyle let the cat out of the bag in a conversation with the boss. Also a few of my frends at work know about it and have asked me some questions about it. My sister knows and it does not bother her at all. We do not tell many others because of the area we live in. |
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I completed agree with u as u said the area we live in same here although my ex gf and current gf knows that i m on here even one of fwb knw abt me here, but still i had to keep it secret as the area i live in |
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Well, I got a peek into what it is like to be "outted"....I am going to hell, I need marriage counselling.....blah blah blah....What you are put down for being in the lifestyle, what is your retort? Its our private life, fuck off?...lol |
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i constantly want to out us. I feel its part of our lives, we're adults and are making decisions that are good for us. that said... not a conversation i want to have with my gramma |
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"I may be going to Hell in a bucket. At least I'm enjoying the ride." - Grateful Dead |
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Before we decided to venture into the LS, we had always been open about sex in general (maybe even a little line crossing in comfortable situations) so naturally we felt OK with some of our friends knowing. That backfired immensly .... the judgement! We were told we must have "problems". That was easy to brush off .... but when GF's stopped inviting us out to vanilla events, we realized we should probably keep where we are going to ourselves. Even when we say we are just going out, the 2 of us to play pool, they automatically think we are out swinging. This is why we find it so important to have FWB ... they understand. Not one sole in our family circle knows anything! My son, 11 yrs old, knows we go out for adult time but hasn't put the pieces together ... guess that's a bridge we will cross when it happens. We are in no way ashamed of what we do so if and when someone finds out, we don't try and hide it. John is sure there must be ST members from his work but they have yet to acknowledge it, I suppose in fear of how it will change their working relationship. |
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babs6969 Sorry to hear that. It is so insensitive/closed of people to assume that their choices in their own lives should be a reflection of what is righteous for others. These very people can't wrap their small minds around the idea that for some of us this lifestyle IS our marriage counselling/therapy!! As for going to hell, well, you'll have some great fucking company!! ;) |
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"Sheep go to Heaven, goats go to Hell" |
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I am atheist...so believe in neither..*gasp* I'm really fucked.
Oh wait....did someone say fucked??....;) |
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