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I know this happens to some of us what is your suggestion
Ok, here's the situation...
You and your swing partner are established in this one group and have made quite a few friends and visit often. You have noticed that one time while you are playing one of your friends partners does something rather peculiar and awkward as he approaches others while they are playing and interjects himself into their playtime by fingering someone as they play and not paying attention to everything going on around them. This half has never been seen playing with his partner, always making sure she is distracted in other areas before finding his target. Even more convenient, he has been known to carry his own bottle of lube so that he has an easy time with inserting his finger into whoever seems to be available.
Personally I would shut the door for private time, but sometimes there is an open door and that invites this type of situation... so how do you protect yourself from this type of person? Do you have any suggestions to others here who have run into the occasional weirdo in a party atmosphere?
Sharon
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RE: I know this happens to some of us, what is your suggestion?
Didnt make it clear in other posting on swinger clubs/parties - we havent doen that yet - but one of our concerns would be this example - consider you are with a group of people, everyone says no mean no, but are you really going to embarass someone? Kinda like calling out rude people in real life - you know the parent being too rough disciplining their kid in the toy section or not at all, the ass who buts in a line - I know its not the same, but you feel a certain hesitation to not to say anything.
With one on ones or closed door private situations I think you can exercise more control and lay out the ground rules - if you are in open play someone is bound to jump in and do something you dont like. |
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