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Is there a sexual act you will not do
Face it, we all have our preferences. Some people sex is a no holds barred when it comes to sex and others have limits. For me, I am pretty open...all depending on my comfort level with the person I am with. With Todd I have no limits really (we haven't hit any so far), he can do what he wants...anytime(NO Todd that wasn't meant as a quote for you to use on me, lol ) and for him there is no butt sex (receiving that is but giving is another story).
I know some people are limited on their anal play...so no fucking the ass, or rimming(Gosh I enjoy that).... some don't like it wild and kinky(dang, like that too). I was just curious if anyone has a hang up on something whether it was something new and unfamiliar that we can all give advice on.
Sharon :love:
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Sharon, I so would love to sit down and share notes with you. Say :coffee: bacon and eggs, toss in some hash browns. This conversation could not be held at a restaurant. I'm still thinking what I might not do in this Lifestyle.
Sorry I'm no help
B Bopp |
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Kat isn't into anal......we tried it and just couldn't go there. Other then that...we are pretty open. |
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We love it all if we have heard about it or seen it we're willing to try it. lol If 2 can do it and its fun we want to know about it, if it takes 3 we need a volunteer. |
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Hmmmm willing to try everything once I think. I am not that into a lot of pain stuff,and can't say I want to try scat play but that is more fetish/kink which maybe a different topic all together.
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My "kryptonite" is bodily wastes so "scat" is pretty much out of the question.
I was in a threesome once where the husband was "bi" and wanted to give me a blow job. I was a bit thrown off back then but I'm pretty sure that if the situation presented itself again, I'd be more inclined to "go with it"... |
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We haven't found anything we have presented each other with yet that we won't try at least once. Him and her both like anal play (him with a strap-on thus far). I am sure there is something one of us would say no to but we haven't had that happen yet. |
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we don't like pain, humiliation, and definitely the ball gag! Open/in to most anything otherwise and will always try something once! (with in reason) |
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There was a time when I was fairly reserved. When we first met, my wife joked with me about how kinky for me, was her on top. Wow has that changed. I'm not into the fetishes (especially those listed above), but pretty much anything except anal done to me is fair game (though my wife swears she's going to get me with a strap-on some night). |
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I always say I do things twice...the first time is just to do it and go through the motions...and the second time I see if I like it.
Sharon :love: |
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We are of the same mind set then. I think it can take at least 2 or 3 times for some things before you can actually decide if you really enjoy it.
If it's something new for both of us then a little practice can make it better and more enjoyable. Somethings I like to grow on me even before trying. He can bring it up and I will start to mull it over, then he could outline it and talk about it a few times, then we will test it out chat afterwards test again etc...
I am sure I am not the one who now enjoys a few things that a few years never even crossed my mind. |
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Well for me, the hiney is a 'NO Go' My butt is an exit zone not an enter zone! Others may enjoy it, but it's not for me! xoxo Shirley |
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We have lots of rules..No poop, no pets, and no means no. Mostly the rest depends on who where and when.. |
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Hmmm as far as Jaison and I go..Anal is for us only...just somethin we keep private. I would say no pain, water sports,skat, or beastality. Other than that...let playtime begin, hehe! |
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Hmmm most things seem at-least triable(is that a word?hehe) But I'm not into being peed on...might fall under fetish thing...but still in the shower hubby can but I have to have soap right there.. literally! Not sure I would do the whole bathroom things..if you know what I'm saying... and lots of pain..nah... |
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I too, like to do at least twice. Like Sharon said, the first time, you don't know if you liked it or not, just going through the motions. You also get better at it and can relax, to enjoy your self more.
There are a couple things I've done that I'd like to try again. Was it my partner at the time, that made it fun or not fun? Something I found fun, but, when done, I found lacking.
Take the spanking. Most people say their not into pain. Then again, most women like a spanking. Most guys have never had one. How hard is too hard? Would/do you think about a paddle?
What about being restrained? Choking can fit in here, the giving up of control.
How far is too far?
I would like to know what some of my limits are.
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B Bopp |
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What I have found are limits are different with every person your with. Some people you may have No limits whatsoever and others there are. For me it depends on my comfort level with the person and just what I'm willing to give of myself....
Sharon :love: |
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My current wife and I have have tried quite a number of things over the years, and have found we have very few limits. The short list would probably include scat play, although the threat of it has been used as part of domination/submission play. Real pain would be out, but some choking, spanking, and slapping has occasionally been fun items to incorporate into our personal play. Oh, and the only animals allowed in the bedroom are us or any of our play friends :) |
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hmmm Well I cant say I have said no to anything hes wanted to try yet |
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HELP!!!,lol ok we are new here we are having no problems responding to posts and even started our own forum but we can not figure out how to post a new thread every time we try from the main lobby it just directs us to someonewleses forum and on ours we dont even see a button for it help us please! |
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Take me beat me make me scream your name
Mike |
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Mike, move over. I think your having too much fun. :eek: :whip:
B Bopp |
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Never can have to much fun :biggrin:
Chele |
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Sharon :love: |
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Girl. Butt, some can hope for Too much fun.
B Bopp
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I like a switch lol :spanking: |
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So heres a ? whats the naughtiest things that have been tried? |
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Hi right back at you |
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so il answer my own ? I just nee to know how naughty im allowed to be |
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mmmmm, send it to my inbox, you can be as naughty as you want there :shocking: |
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Ok lol I will do that maybee I will tell you a couple of them then we can decide which one I post here |
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This I'm waiting to see. I'm such a perv! :naughty:
KISSES
B Bopp |
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I dont know theres one im not saying here, yet any way,lol one my birthday one I had three boys in one night at my party and the other realy naughty thing was recent, I had a special suprise waiting for ZJ when he came home from work... |
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You mean an on/off switch? :angel:
Sharon :love: |
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Well a couple days ago whe J came home from work I was in bed waiting and he usualy will go down on me first but this time I just got him hard and had him put it right in and he noticed h is suprise right away,lol hes was like your either realy wet but it feels more like you had some fun with out me hehehe so.... |
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lmao lol I had a couple of switches in mind, but that was not one of them. lol
Give me a chance and I can be a very naughty boy.
KISSES
B Bopp |
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oh can you now...just how naughty can you be |
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lmao I'm still working on trying to answer this post. Something I wont try or try again.
You have something to share? send me a note. |
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lol awwe if your shy you can just email me |
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Sometimes it even takes a 3rd or more. First you have to open yourself to an idea, then you have to process things after you've tried. Sometimes takes another go and time to wrap your brain around it. Then you have to be able to do it well to be enjoyable.
Even then the things you thought you didn't like can be re-visited down the road...I find some things grow on me over time.
Once you get over what people think or society says is ok etc.... it's amazing what you find quite enjoyable. |
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Severe humiliation is not on my list of things to try. Having someone spit in my face which seems to be the common thread in porn lately is too much for me. Also the gag her til she pukes on your cock etc... these are just not my thing.
At a friends birthday I was paddled (it was a reverse paddywacks deal) I knew that it was not my thing but this let me know for sure I will not go down that road again. We have the pics of my bruised ass for the been there done that and won't do again.
That being said "Flogging" is another story and for those who have never done it, it is not painful. |
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I think it depends on the flogging. |
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scat play??
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scat play??
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Ass to mouth!!! Never!!! |
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I second that.
Sharon :love: |
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I will definitely leave blood, scat, pee, pain, latex and gagging-to-hurling to the pros. All else...I'll try, a few times. |
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...and NO bondage. Can't do bondage. |
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I do have some things that I won't do, but my comment is more for what my body either wont let me do or its just not that fun. For example, i have super sensitive breasts. In fact just lightly sucking on them can get juices flowing in the down low. When I am with someone new and even if I tell them I have sensitive breasts, handle with care. for some reason they have a need to either pinch, twist, suck to hard. I don't know if other women like that done to their breasts and that's why men do it with me. But handle with care for me means fragile. The other thing I cannot do is doggie style. I have a tilted uterus and when the guy is startin to get into it he hits a wall back there and the pain that shoots thru my pelvic and back is extremely painful everything must stop til the pain subsides. |
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Thank you for that! So many people don't understand why I ask so many questions, move so slowly, touch so lightly. It's women like you who have helped me to grow into the man I am. |
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I've heard that often. Both the breasts and down south. Guys are too rough.
There are woman that like and encourage rough breast and nipple play.
My wife needed soft breast play but encouraged harder or rougher play down south.
It comes down to communication.
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We've got a lot of sexual acts that we will never ever do. Those are the acts that don't exist. Lol. |
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I wish more guys were like you then. Asking more questions. I have been told I am one the hardest woman to please. I do know my body and that's probably true from a man's point of view. However, I am not vaginally stimulated. I have to be in a certain position to get stimulated to reach the big O. A lo of guys don't get that.
I am glad there are others out there like me and have helped you become a better man and lover.
M |
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Ok I am a niave forty something person. I guess I really didnt think and definetky didnt know about some of these sexual acts lol. I dont want to hijack this threat so can somebody tell me where I may be abke to find a post etc that informs me of these different acts? Just want to be an informed lover ;) thanks Kim |
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There is no post with sexual acts that I know of. Just if you have a question about a certain position mentioned, just ask!
Sharon
PS, welcoems to swingtowns! |
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Good morning. :welcome: to ST and the forums.
Various positions are talked about IN some of these topics. Some in detail. Go to forums, check the topics, and read the posts. When you find something that you have a question about, click on comment and ask.
B Bopp |
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Good morning guys. Hope everyone slept tight in someone's arms. Lol. |
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Guys tend to move rather fast. Your next lover, ask him to slow down. Have him start with one hand, just his finger tips. Have him trace his fingers over your body. Tell him what feels good. Most guys are will to learn how to please you. show him how. |
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I'm not into pain or humilitation,most of the fetishes I'm not interested in.
would like to try anal with someone who knows what they are doing and I like most toys.Most group stuff is okay and would like to try more. |
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I have done just that, at my age I have had a few men in my life. My slutty years were pre 1986 and i can tell you that the older the men get the more they are willing to listen and/or want to please. Since my divorce I have been with maybe 5 guys, so I'm still learning about the "communication" thing. However, like I said in a previous post. What may work today won't necessarily work tomorrow. Plus each guy is very different in bed, which I like, but still not putting away my vibrators. LOL |
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Damn! You're funny. real talk...Lol. |
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There's a guy out there, that will learn your buttons and when and where to press them. Keep the vibrators, too. There fun to play with too.
:hug:
B Bopp |
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Yes, Bebopp, I know there is somewhere. In the mean time I plan on getting in a lot of practice, practice, practice. Plus I'm learning a hell of a lot about myself. |
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Hugs |
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