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Why do men just right into sex without getting to know me. Things would be so much better then just right into sex. Hell guys get to know me first. |
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I think i just commented about men on the other post, but, yeh girl you right, you have tot get to know someone , ya know, to me its just being human ,...C'mon, we might be some sex craved animals here , lol, but not litterally!!!!!!!!!!!lmao lmao lmao lmao lovs keri |
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Woman are just as bad. I got a email frOm a girl that said
"me and my husband got in a big fight, but I finally said he can sleep with you, when do you want to meet him?"lmao
Hehehehe, got a good laugh out of that
( sorry had to share, if you see this you are of
Course still welcome to our socials, but I'm
Still not interested in sleeping with him)..:)
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lol lol lol thats hillarious, i would have shit!!!!!!!! but , yes i apoligize , women can be bad to, im sorry, but yeh if id gotta email like that, huh!!!! hehehehehehe , id would have said, "thats ok, you can keep that one!!!!", theres plenty more where he came from!!!!!!!!!! lmao lmao lmao |
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I agree that women are no different than men when it comes to tack sometimes. |
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It's what you like, and you should stick with it.
As singles, neither Lulu or I dated traditionally, we just don't have the patience for this stuff(getting to know).
Really. So, if I met a girl, exchanged numbers and asked her on a date, if she didn't spend the night I'd never call her again, I'd feel strung along, as in, I wouldn't get smarter or better looking with time, if she wasn't infatuated with me at the beginning she never would.
Same thing with Lulu, she wouldn't go out on a date with a guy she couldn't imagine being intimate with, and, if the sex sucked, she never went out with him again.
N. America is fucked up when it comes to dating, everywhere else in the world, there's the kissing within the first 5 minutes rule. If you don't kiss a girl at a club when you start chating at a club, she'd think you're not interested or an idiot. You'd play hard to get with a man that knows his value and he'd move on.
In the lifestyle we don't have time for drama, between our social life, our family, jobs, vanilla friends, time of the mth, sitter, mood to play, etc, we maybe play once every cpl mths or so; when we feel like playing, if we like a person/cpl that we meet we fawk them the same night, if they need to think about it or get to know us we move on, as we're not looking for poliamory or other spouses.
The game is called SPORT FUCKING, get with the program, piss or get off the pot.
And we never involve children with our play partners, ours or theirs. |
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The above post just shows that everyone is different.
It could not farther from the truth of what we looked for as singles or now as a couple.
In this lifestyle there is room for everyone. |
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Seriously now, you're on a sex site, looking for romance......... Try Lavalife.......
So you post an ad, on a sex site, looking for sex, as a single or a couple with a single or a couple. However, you expect them to sweep you off your feet?! By the time you posted that ad you should know that there's some sort of sexual expectations. We seldom share intimacy with the people we meet, it is our right to be picky. But if the chemistry is right, why wait, or get to know better, we're never going to invite our play friends to our toddler's birthday party, or care to know their favorite ice cream flavor. We're not going to put our lives on hold, get a sitter countless times, because a person/couple isn't sure if there's enough chemistry. We heard of a 4th "date" between 2 couples, and, we rolled our eyes. Don't these people have a life outside the swinging world?
Really? We go out to clubs 1-2 times a month, to mingle and have fun meeting other like minded people, but we are in a swinging mood every other month or so, by the time 8 mths will pass by for our 4th "date" we'd forget what you look like..... And then the other man doesn't know how to fuck, or can't get it up, or they bring their personal issues along, fighting in our home(it happened), or the other lady has a headache. Why would a normal couple with a family, friends and a good sex life will subject themselves to this?
A 4 way connection is so hard to find, that we're no longer seeking couples at this point, and we're happy to play with single male/females, and, it's a lot more fun.......
However, this is our point of view, and, we're not trying to influence yours. There is a lot of other people that thinks like you, and, would be a perfect match, and, you shouldn't lower your standards and expectations trying to fit in. |
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Ya know,???? i like the way you think!!!!! lol lol lol you have some good points!!!!!!!!! keri lol lol lol |
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We like the way we think too :P
How are you feeling?
xoxox
L&A |
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hi you, i'm doing a lil better, each day gets better, thankfully, lol hows my girl, lulu, ???? yeh you really express yourself huh???!!!! but thats good, and smart too!!!! thank you so much for asking bout me, hope all is well and sexy for yall!!! lol lol :hello: keri |
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She's doing better now, we pushed the world away and had a late night just the two of us, and, are still paying for it LOL. |
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well if ya don't mind me asking, what was wrong, or was there something wrong????? just curious , if don't wanna anwser, its ok, keri |
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I PM 'd you about it. Don't fall off the chair laughing about it. |
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OH COME ON!!!!!
Magiriano, you are a master baiter! |
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Ok, I'll tell....
I encouraged Lulu to develop her Dominant side, and, she realized awhile back that what she loves is dominating crossdressers/sissy girls, role reversal and forced feminization. However she had to let go of her last prospective sub when on Halloween, he fucked up royally, leaving a party that we invited him/her at, without being dismissed and without her knowledge. She didn't left him/her tied up to a chair, or ignored him/her, she gave him leisure time, while we went to the playroom with a couple of our friends for some foreplay. It was part of a test that he/she failed.
Anyway, Lulu's been like a kid without a toy at a playground ever since, since we are both dominant, and, she needed a sub, however not just any sub, as she is very specific about her likes.
Finally, she has found a new prospect, they been considering it for a fee weeks now, but he signed up the contract recently and, hopefully after the 3 months of probation she'd collar him.
He is a sweetheart, very nice, very feminine and loves to serve, great to talk to, considerate, comfortable with himself and his body, comfortable with his kinks, we both loved him right away and she can't wait to show him/her off to her Dom/Domme and submissive friends....... I just want the massages that apparently he's very good at, he subbed for couples before but he's not really my type of a sub LOL
It will be fun to watch a 4'11" 100lbs Domme with her 6'4" very athletic pet :D |
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Me Master! This Blaster! Who runs Barter Town?
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There's a few Barter Towns LOL!
In the BDSM, Lulu is a Domme, while I am a switch and only sub for her every now and then as it takes a very strong willed person to match mine, otherwise I am a total Dom.
As swingers and in our vanilla life we both top from the bottom. |
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I was commenting speciffically on "It will be fun to watch a 4'11" 100lbs Domme with her 6'4" very athletic pet" |
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LOL LOL LOL
She'd be Master but he/she's a sweetheart that wouldn't hurt a fly, no Blaster there. Her last pet tho was a 6'4" 240 lbs hockey player, definitely a Master Blaster pair......
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Sometimes life can be confusing. Sometimes I think........this is a sex site like Magiriano says and we do come to this site with some expectations of having fun. I would not go to a resturant if I wasn't looking for something to eat. Have you ever gone to a resturant just to look at the menu and then leave? But, I also know that we are people first...so getting to know someone is part of the "game." We don't have to be best friends to play with someone and we honestly don't want people we play with coming over for Thanksgiving dinner. We keep our swinging life and personal life totally separate. We do like meeting for dates, maybe going to a show or something with the evening ending in bed. :) |
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I kind of agree with the original post. Yes, this is a sex site, and yes, we are looking fir people to have sex with. As a woman i could probably go out and get laid any day of the week. This is not what I'm looking for. I already have quality, not looking for quantity. (well lately that might be ok since hubby is gone working all the time! Lol). If I'm gonna get intimate with another man, or couple, I want to have a few common interests outside the bedroom. I also want to be respected. Ever feel "used" after sex? If I don't feel respected, I certainly won't be having sex with you! Get to know me, (us) a little first. Just because we swing doesn't mean we will swing with anyone! Send a few mails, chat and meet. Then, we can decide if the attraction is there enough to play. Then we can discuss details.I understand that guys are more visually turned on, but Sending a picture of your cock doesn't do much for me. I need to like the person, not their cock. Single guys, my advice to you is.... Try seduction instead of being crude. Oooh! It's late! I'm tired and babbling!
I could really use to be seduced! Ducky where are you!!
Hugs -Shelley. |
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So we got this email from a single guy on another site where we have a COUPLE"s profile:
> Sender: cxxxxxxx
> To: mxxxxxx
> Date: Jan 10, 2012 10:47 PM
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> you're one hot little number - exotic erotic beauty... lets fuck!
however Lulu had the flu and was sick as a dog, so I waited until next morning when she felt better than asked her to reply, otherwise it would've been a quick block and delete:
So she replied:
> Sender: mxxxxxx
> To: cxxxxxxx
> Date: Jan 11, 2012 8:11 AM
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> I just read your profile, and, based on what I saw I could assume that you're a junkie(prefer not to say at drugs) leprechaun(you're quite short for a man, don't you think?) that has self esteem issues due to being ugly(no picture)......
> Sorry for being too blunt, was your introductory email supposed to make me wet my panties? Does that sh!t actually work even on the welfare mutts on this site?
> FYI, this is what I go to bed every night with, and he is the best fuck I ever met....
> Care to try a fresh start????
> Remember, blocking you is just a click away!
>
> toddles!
And she attached one of my better face pictures LOL. We thought he'd get the hint or give up, however never underestimate stupid, we got a reply......
> you are one cool cucumber! Got me laughing at your way of assuming the worst of me. Tough short >fucker but no insecurity issues here, sorry to bust you bubble on that. I do have a napoleon >syndrom so my deal is dominating little fuck holes that crave big fat long cocks! Far from ugly so >no need to subject myself to abuse from any bitches, male or female. As for drugs, just 420 >friendly so far from a junkie LOL ---------------------------------------------------
so we Blocked then deleted.........
Seriously? His profile is almost blank, no picture and he does expect a married woman to drop her life and panties for this?
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Gotta love it! I'm so glad someone else has the same wicked smartass responses I give. I mean some days I try to educate them and give them a lecture...other times it's just opening of the flood gates and reaming their asses out lol
And... I cannot believe the guy was cocky enough to reply back...oh wait yeah I can some just don't have a freakin clue.
WTG Lulu!
:coolbabe:
Sharon |
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You hit the nail the head darlin! Kudos! We would Much rather get to know others first and then Oh...So...Slowly and deliberately seduce them into a frenzy! lol Wow, I gotta stop thinking like this in the middle of the day or it's gonna be a long afternoon.
Dale & (Margaret later) :kiss: :hyper: |
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