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Do you think too much masturbation can hurt your sex life?
Smooches,
Gin |
RE: Masturbation......
I think it all depends on why your masterbating. If your drive is higher than your partners, if you need a quick fix while they are away or at work, if it helps you relax etc... just enjoy.
If however you masterbate as part of an avoidance of intimacy with your partner or they haven't been shown what you need to get off etc... then that's a problem. |
RE: Masturbation......
Very true and if your masturbation takes care of that desire and you refuse your partner, it's time to make a change!
Smooches,
Gin |
RE: Masturbation......
Too much masturbation can definitely hurt your sex life. The key is to find out the reason why the person is masturbating excessively. Compulsive masturbation is one of the many behaviors a sex addict displays while in crisis so it can become a serious issue between a couple and for the general health of the masturbator.
Sharon |
RE: Masturbation......
Being single and having an extremely hi sex drive, a morning quicky, lunch if there is time and a place and long and slow at night, would make my day. OK maybe not every day. But saying 7 times a week, would be a low number.
Medically speaking, masturbation can be bad, especially for a male. When done to often, it can desensitize the male organ. Call it calluses.
Mentally speaking, fantasy's can out pace reality.
Add them together, you have a guy with very little feeling down there and finding it difficult finding partners that reach his expectations.
In most cases, this is easy to fix. Stop masturbating so much and keep the fantasy's in the spectrum of reality. Or find a steady sex partner.
Any volunteers? I would hate for the above to happen to me.
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RE: Masturbation......
Frequent masturbation is not bad for you. As long as it isn’t interfering with your work performance or taking precedence over the routine activities in your life, there’s no reason to be concerned about this. It will not decrease your sex drive, and it will not cause health problems. Enthusiastic masturbation can be tiring, though, and overly frequent activity of this nature can lead to physical exhaustion. Therefore, you may want to keep this in mind and schedule your solo sessions around your job or social obligations, lest you be fatigued throughout them.
If, however, you find yourself growing obsessed with masturbation to a point where it’s interfering with work or personal relationships, it’s probably time to cut back a bit and perhaps speak to a professional about underlying issues that may be the cause.
It will not desensitize you unless you masturbate and then a short time later decide to have sex with a patner, you could have a problem, you need recoup time.
It can be a problem if masturbation is constantly chosen instead of the real thing or if it causes one to set life aside to do it.
Smooches,
Gin
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RE: Masturbation......
Dr Drew talked about masterbation on one of his recent shows, and I agree with what was said. Sexual relief is a great way to reduce stress. How many people have we run into and thought to ourselvs...that guy (or girl) needs to get laid because they are way too stressed out? For me, it allows me to experience an orgasm when and where I want. Mutual masterbation is also a lot of fun. |
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