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As a single male, I am appalled at the number of people who claim to be one thing, yet turn out to be something entirely different. This lifestyle demands that people be open, honest, forthcoming and true to their character. So why then would we find so many on here who are not.
I am annoyed at feeling like every contact I try to make that I am met with skepticism. I am not annoyed at the people who feel that way, I am annoyed at the men on here who have abused this site and fostered an environment where good honest people have so much distrust at any attempt to form friendships or show interest in someone else.
For those men who need to come to this site because it isn't working for you in your marriage I have some advice.
Perhaps your marriage or relationship isn't working because of you! Yeah that's right YOU! If you put as much effort into your marriage or relationship as you do sneaking around this site and who knows what else, then maybe things might be far better on the home front!!!
I have and continue to meet very nice couples and single females on here. I would like to believe the reason is this... The couples and single females and the truly single males for that part all have one common thread. We are all secure enough within ourselves to be out there in the open, we don't hide our sensuality or our willingness to be accepted as we are. The only vale of secrecy we hide behind is that we caution, but we are honest to the core and expect the same in return.
We are part of a lifestyle, this is a portion of our being, it is not a facade, so I wish you would respect who we are and not come on here to mislead, misrepresent, or manipulate people so you can find the pleasure that your significant other wants so desperately for you to give them. Instead, you are to busy cheating on her and don't see the beauty that stands before you each and every day; how sad and pathetic is that! |
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Single men are definatley not the only ones who claim to be one thing, yet turn out to be something entirely different.
In fact we have way more problems with the couples on here than we do the single men. |
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You don't know me, or my past, and to call someone a loser without knowing them... only shows your immaturity. Get a grip, swinging doesn't involve only "fucking" as you say. It is a lifestyle, one that seeks other like minded people who love, have compassion and understanding and are non judgmental.
The last place anyone on here needs to be insulted for their beliefs is on a site like this. So as me only wanting to "fuck" someone's wife, you are so removed from the reality of what swinging is all about!!!! |
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I was actually wondering how someone could be that rude when we are suppose to be adults telling someone to leave a site or they don't belong is really rude maybe they are the ones who should leave..SugarBear :) |
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There are plenty of couples looking for single males on this site, So for Looking60107 to be bashing one for his opinions without getting to know him is not a proper thing to do. I started on here as a single male 4 years ago and was accepted with respect and friendship by most people here. I did not join this site to bang anyone at all. A link to this site was sent to my email as an advetisement and I wanted to know what the lifestyle was all about. So I joined and started talking to couples and learning. What an eye-openner did I get. I did not meet anyone for at least a year and that was Sharon who was a single woman on this site. (Its amazing how single women are accepted quicker than men}. We have lived together for 3 years and yes, We do play with single men sometimes only after we are comfortable they will treat her with respect. She has also met them without me present. We have some very respectfull single men and women here and I hope that they enjoy this site as much as the couples do. |
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well i know you and your real and the right kind of guys that have respect for others wifes, your a great friend, dont give up here cuz of drama, this is your life , your business not theres or anyones elses, people just need not judge , everysignle one of us male , female, black ,or white, are all different, i say theres not a damn thing wrong with how you feel , you keep going and you better not skip out om me lol lol your like my lil rock to lean on and be sexy with , what i said before , screw what others say, everybodys an asshole we all have one!!!!!!!!!! lov u babe :sexywink: keri |
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Your wrong about downtownheavn, me and my wife speak to him regularly and she has grown a bond with downtownheaven. This bond is a friendship bond we both trust to be honest and truthfull. We are going on a holiday to meet him, hot pants will have passionate sex with his passion in his pants.
Downtownheaven is very respectful with my feeling and always is concerned how I am with this.
Most men who trust their wife and want her to be satisfied with more is a true gift of strength and turst.
We have met 3 men on here, all 3 have turned us on for 2 weeks. 2 of the men just lied about everything, the other we had fun, drinking and partying. When we ravished ourself with hotpants in the motel room, he was so horny but his passion in his pants would not go up. Poor hotpants worked overtime to get the passion in the pants happening, however his passion was not in his pants.
Thanks downtownheaven you are the only person so far that has been able to give hotpants a stimulation that the other 3 could not. |
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well said yall , i agree totally , weve been getting a li close but id like to be closer, i think its great yall have a wonderful time with him , sounds like fun fun !!!!! i respect yall care about him , thnks keri!!!! :sexywink: kisses |
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Jeez I'm now getting a passion in mypants for babygirl. |
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check ya email sweetys!!!!:kinky: :bigkiss: |
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I'm harmless :pinocchio: |
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I read this thread and found myself confused, so I reread the thread again thinking I must have missed something. When I reread the thread I noticed that on the 3rd and 9th entry there were quotation marks at the top of those entries where someone's comment was deleted. The original entry was deleted thus deleting any reference to this entry.
Now I don't have a problem with the deletion of this entry since it probably had unkind and untrue opinions.
When that comment was deleted the thread became confusing. Why wasn't the comments attached to the deleted entry also deleted? My first reaction when reading some of the entries was to look up the profile that was mentioned in other entries. I guess what I'm saying here is when an entry is deleted then ALL the entries attached to that comment and/or referenced to the deleted comment should also be deleted. This would bring the thread back to what the original poster intended and the comments would be about the original thread. We wouldn't be reading the comments users posted regarding an entry that was later deleted. With that said.
I have talked with married men on here also have told them. I don't like to spend time with a married man cause like a kid they have to be home before dark. Since they are limited to time. Also, you can't have a real friendship with a married man, you can't call them at home and if you call their cell you hope the wife doesn't snoop and find your number. Like the poster said that's not what this lifestyle is about.
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I totally agree muliebrity with regard to only deleting partial threads. I like you read a hole thread and try to follow what has gone on. |
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I agree, a thread should remain intact. This deleted poster should be dealt with in a similar as in the chat room, leaving the thread intact.
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Sounds like some of the men you have spoke to have jealouse wives. If you called my house and asked for me, Sharon would just hand me the phone. There are bad apples on both sides of this issue. |
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Actually, I was referring to the married men on here that haven't told their wife what they are doing. Therefore cheating on their wife. They are the ones you can't form a real friendship with or call them. They just want to bone and dis-own, or hit it and quit it.
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When I was single I somehow attracted all "those" kinds. What I did to weed them out was ask them straight forward..."are you married" and watched their reaction, most will either come out and tell you or their look in itself will speak for them. Then I will tell them I have NO need for married men or women playing with me without the consent of their partner. Swinging is a healthy way for married people to play outside of their Priority relationship, not to get some on the side. |
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