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We are just curious, we see that there are many new members that join but no profile photo, no information about them, but yet they send messages asking to see our private gallery and to talk more to meet. I see what the majority is on the site but we are wondering, are there people/ females that are actually near that would like to meet up and hang out? Another question to ask. We see that this site is mainly couples swinging/swapping, very few females looking for a threesome with a couple, the question is, those that are in a relationship where your mate lets you join another couple but will not join, is it possible to have this stated on your profiles also lol. There are a few that we have ran across on here that tell us in a message about this type of arrangement. Just curious. |
RE: Private Members and members that are local
I love your idea on profiles stating whether or not a partner in a couple would be free and available to join other couples solo, however, I would really like to know what the community thinks about this.
Oh community??? Lol ;)
-Jay |
RE: Private Members and members that are local
I think if couples wanted that info in their profiles they would include it. I also think that if a couple stated a women could play solo they would be overwhelmed with emails asking her to do so. Very few couples that I know practice this and those that do generally hold it to one or two close friends and not open to the community as a whole. |
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We have it written in our profiles (or at least I do). I think the best way to find out is to ask, if a couple isn't willing to play separately they will state as such and hopefully in a positive way. (and most couples I've met don't play separately) Now if a couple would respond "fuck that we play together only ya asshole"or something negative like that...that just shows that even if you were playing couple to couple their attitude outshines anything else and I would sooooo pass!
:coolbabe:
Sharon |
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I'm responding as a single guy.
I know a few couples that the fem side, can and does play alone. If it was in their profile, it no longer is. The over whelming response from men. Single, married and playing solo and cheating husbands. Safety is a huge issue. Most couples wish to meet as a couple, then go from there. Most responders tend to try to exclude the male half of a couple. They show little or no respect to the male half of the relationship.
You are more likely to meet an attached female that plays solo after, you meet/play with them as a couple.
As for photos. There yours to do with as you please.
I, my self, reject, ignore, almost all photo requests and I'm interested, that don't come with a note. If they can't or don't wish to talk to me, they don't get to meet me or see my photos.
B Bopp |
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well stated Mr Bopper! Between Todd and I starting up as single swingers then becoming a "couple" we do straddle both sides of the fence on singles and the lifestyle as we have both been there. For me when I am broached about meeting up for a one on one, I would expect the person asking to understand that my partner needs to be addressed and asked. Many messages I get are "your hot, can I fuck you" kind of thing....and my response is "only if Todd can watch" lol Kind of gives them the message in a subtle kind of way that they need to address us as a couple and not single.
As for photos....man, if I had a penny for all I denied I'd be rich!
Sharon
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