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Ok, maybe the singles too.... but my question is~
When you are playing with your partner, do you always want them to reciprocate? Meaning...if you are giving the pleasure do you always expect it back... right then and there or do you just enjoy giving the pleasure and want to finish yourself off too?
C'mon inquiring minds wanna know!
Sharonâ„ |
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I enjoy giving.........and my "goal" is to ensure my partner is pleased. If she chooses to show her appreciation...that's fine....if not thats fine too. It's not a contractual agreement....both giving parties.....I like to do what ever is fun and hope everyone does the same. |
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I enjoy giving oral. To both men and woman, but honestly..I'm not huge into it
Myself. I much prefer a good set of fingers. |
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Wait...I kinda take that back. Tried a standing 69 for the first time last weekend at the club, and I have to say that was pretty amazing... |
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I've never heard of a standing 69...who was on their head? lol
Sharon |
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Lmao!! I was upside down and he was holding me up, with my legs wrapped around his neck. Scary...but it was interesting! |
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Wows, I would have LOVED to seen that!
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Well, I would have to say I would be lying if I didn't expect something in return!!! lol lol lol
But I don't expect it 'on demand' lol lol I like the unexpected approach!! xoxo Shirley |
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There is no second thought to this answer. Giving. With only a hope that it is returned this time or next time. I find great pleasure in pleasing my partner/partners.
:hug:
B Bopp |
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We don't practice the I do you then you do me approach. I am guessing you are referring strictly to oral sex by the comments posted.
As for sex in general there are plenty of times he gets off and I don't which is fine with me. Sometimes after a long day a quicky is just what the doctor ordered for stress relief then straight to sleep while spooning. |
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The real trick is getting off as much by giving as by receiving. If you can both do that, you will never want for either. |
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Remember the rule of Christmas, tis better to give than to receive. |
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I may pleasure her and i may not myself, but I get the bigest thrill of just pleasuring her and knowing she is happy and turned on is satifaction to me. |
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We love to pleasure each other but we are ok if only one does it because we know there will come a time the favor is returned |
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i live by the rule a women allways cum's 1st |
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My enjoyment is in pleasing the lady for at least 2 hours and hear her cum over and over again. That is my pleasure and satisfaction MMMMMM that is the only way to go and if she finishes me oraly then that is a super plus! |
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I love oral! The kissing, licking, sucking. The scent. Running my hands over my partner, letting them wander. The feel of how soft they are. To hear them moan. Feel their heart beat faster. To feel them purr when your doing something right. Their taste.
When pleasing my partner, "I" come alive. My sight, hearing, my hands, my nose, all come into play.
Knowing I've pleased my partner, gives me great satisfaction. |
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Thank you Pasley for stating it's fine sometimes when you don't get off and your man does. It doesn't always mean we didn't enjoy ourselves. I think I will start a new thread to ask what is going thru the guy's head when the woman doesn't have an orgasm? |
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You are just as sadistic as Todd...sometimes he just loves to torture me lol
Sharon |
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I love all these generous people! Particularly since such generosity does not come naturally to me.
In theory, of course I want to ensure that my partner is pleased, but in practice, I tend to focus on enjoying myself much more than on how much my partner is enjoying himself. There are a few times that I've pleased without worrying about getting it reciprocated... that particular time, since I know that, overall, I've been indulged far more often. But overall, I'm likelier to enjoy myself and maybe/maybe not remember to check on whether my partner's satisfied. I certainly would not be content with a partner who does not worry about my needs.
This selfish person says "Huzzah" for all you generous folks!
Mrs.DE |
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Though I love the thrill of climaxing and squirting tremendously, I truly love, get turned on by, and am very satisfied knowing that I performed and pleased my partner immensley, fulfilling their desires and fantasies, made their bodies shudder and shake from intense sensations, feeling their sweet release of the prize that was building up inside of them, and hearing the rapidness of their breathing and the gentle slowing of their rapid heartbeat after an intense explosion. If I get off while enjoying my pleasuring my partner then that is just an added bonus! |
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Mrs. DE, your my kind of woman! I love being USED for your/her pleasure.
It is one reason, I like a lady on top, Cow Girl. She can make it feel, just right, and I last longer or don't cum at all. Then round 2. lol
B Bopp |
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That's the wonderful thing about there being so many different types: selfish folks like me and generous ones like you can sync up nicely and enjoy. :)
Mrs.DE |
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Dont get me wrong, I do like to rec. oral but, I like giving it much more !! I would pass up mine any day to for the chance to please her. :rolltongue: |
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So very true. I'm yours to use.
B Bopp |
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I luv giving oral sex to him and another female.Specially, if my husband is watching me giving head to another male or eating a female puzz.It turns me on and makes me suck more and lick longer.I have climax giving head. |
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younus3: I luv giving oral sex to him and another female
At the same time? Nice. |
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The power of the mind is amazing. I can too climax while performing on someone if I get to that place....it's amazing ain't it?
Sharon |
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Isn't it funny how that happens? The more excited, the more wet she gets...the faster and harder the pounding! mmmmm, I'm just waiting for a certain someone to come home now.
Sharon:love: |
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just as in chivolry(sp) Ladies first always have and always will be that way i dont want it all the time i just like t touch feel suck kiss and taste |
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I enjoy giving and receiving about equally. There are days that I only want to give and other days that I want to receive for a long time before giving. I find it depends on where I am in my cycle. I almost always orgasm from giving oral, and if I don't a single touch will usually send me over the edge anyway. I have one playmate who is all about the giving. For hours on end with naps between. He makes me orgasm till I'm literally vibrating the bed, then naps till I stop trembling and starts all over again. I felt so selfish but got used to it as I realized he got satisfaction from the giving. Though ultimately he will ask for an oral finish when I can't take anymore. Its an amazing experience though I have to say I can't deal with it more than once or twice a month. I feel to selfish! I live for hearing and feeling that orgasm; male or female. - The Mrs |
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