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So few times we have been out and notice that quite a few men whether married or have a partner get to bring their girlfriends besides their spouse or wife or partner to private parties or clubs Now for us as woman I would love to be able to bring my boyfriend and my lover but no single men allowed and to me that is a double standard and we should be able to enjoy our men as well as the men enjoy their woman lovers. So, what do you all think about that? |
RE: double standards
Maybe there should be a third category besides couple and single... but I think the issue is that in general, more men than women play. Even when there are even numbers of men and women, there are likely to be too few women in practice, because (it seems to me that) many swinger women are bi. Party organizers are trying to minimize conflict, and having horny men hanging around (drinking) without partners is not a recipe for harmony...
But I do see your point. |
RE: double standards
I think alot of it is most places are trying to entice the mythical unicorns to their events. It is a double standard but like cupcake stated they are trying to avoide a party filled with horny men. In most cases though if you contact the organizer they would probably allow your extra man as your guest. The club we frequent is open Friday and Saturday. Friday is all singles and couples welcom. Saturday is just single female and couples. But they do allow single men as a guest of a couple on Saturdays. Might be the places you go will allow it but don't want to advertise it to keep the ratios even. |
RE: double standards
We took a single girl with us to a house party that we go to on a regular basis. She was the life of the party with the single guys for that reason. If you are going to an established club you can usually contact the host and get permission to bring a single friend. We only recommend people we know to have good character. |
RE: double standards
We have found that some clubs/parties we attend have a policy that a single male can attend with a couple. The couple however has full responsibility for his behaviour and has their membership to the club on the line in bringing him. |
RE: double standards
When I was a single girl I alwaysss brought in a Male Escort with me. The hosts always knew that we were both single, but partnered for the night. As Pasley said, as I brought him in it was my reputation on the line...so I always made sure my date was of good character. Never had a problem!
Sharon |
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