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we need a calender on here like sls close to stl here
I live close to stl. Would be nice if there were a calendar on here where u can touch a date and see for example tonight I would have loved to have had a sexy night tonight. I'm not going n emailing everyone. Also what's up with people saying there interested then u send Ur phone number n they act like that's not safe. Am I gonna kill I through phone. You can put Ur picture and Ur address but gotta get to know me for months on this site to text. I feel like my husband n I are fun attractive real people so if u wanna send endless flirtation n ask me everyday Ur waisting time. I actually like sex , I'm not on here to pretend I'm bi to make my man like me. Be serious |
RE: we need a calender on here like sls. close to stl here.
There's a calendar that you can post events or see events posted. It's on the left hand side of homepage under navigation. It's called "Live adds" . It used to be called calendar, I don't know why they changed it :) |
RE: we need a calender on here like sls. close to stl here.
I would never just call a number that a random person has given to me. It appears needy and desperate...and I am neither. Perhaps that is how you are coming across... |
RE: we need a calender on here like sls. close to stl here.
You can look at my pictures. Needy or pathetic I'm real sure. Is this a swingers site. I hardly call it random when someone has sent u endless flirtation n ask for pictures. You wouldn't call a number or text but your address n photos are on here. I don't like men pretending to be women or endless flirtation for no reason but apparently its u cause Ur taking it personal enough to be insulting. I didn't say anyone certain person but you are insulting me because your bitter or what. |
RE: we need a calender on here like sls. close to stl here.
Lol don't text to know someone better but FUCK random people. That's Awsome. |
RE: we need a calender on here like sls. close to stl here.
I had a date here the first 2 weeks when I was on here....the thing is you have to do your part and get involved. People are just not going to gravitate to your profile just because your photo is on here or that your in their area....you've got to socialize, be flirty, and have fun.
You've been members on this site since Dec 2010...and this is one of only 2 posts I've seen on the forums, perhaps writing more and getting your personality out would help (and putting a positive twist on the postings not a negative) You cannot just snap your fingers and have it happen.
Also, have you even visited the chat room? It gives you real time interaction with some of our users whom provide great valuable tips when questions are asked...and you DO get to see some on cam if they allow.
Lastly, you say in your profile that you are "too cheap" to pay for membership? NOW that is a huge red flag that you are not really serious about the lifestyle, so why WOULD anyone want to meet up? And... the messages you are posting about "texting" and only having 5 emails a day make you sound desperate. Why not take advantage of the $49 lifetime membership deal (think its still going on) and make huge step into becoming an established swinger couple?
BTW, you should not being giving your phone # away randomly to people on here, there is a reason why ST does not allow personal information to be written in profiles...it can lead to all kinds of issues. Just because people have a great profile write up, it does not mean they are who they say... you should air on the side of caution when giving out the personal info! |
RE: we need a calender on here like sls. close to stl here.
Im not bitter, nor am'I trying to be rude. You asked a question and I simple answered it. It is a just some constructive critism. |
RE: we need a calender on here like sls. close to stl here.
As a person who used to cry when criticized or looked at cross eyed people, I've learned over the past 20 years to accept constructive criticism. Now I take it all in and say thanks for your opinion (or fuck off, lol)
Sharon |
RE: we need a calender on here like sls. close to stl here.
I'm not sure how you get the impression of " fuck random people" anyone who knows us ( and I have met LOTS of people from here) know that we don't play with strangers. When I hold socials I often have people writing asking if I am interested in him or her, my answer is always " none, we don't play with strangers and this is a meet and greet" I am not in this lifestyle for just a "good lay"..( although when you find it it's a perk)..but FRIENDS, and regardless of age, size or race I am always VERY nice to people, and those that know me, know this. And just because someone has a nice body, Does not make them a "good candidate" Attitude is 99% of it. |
RE: we need a calender on here like sls. close to stl here.
We are happy to say that we fucked random people and we made great friends with swingers that we didn't fuck. And we like to think that we are ethical sluts........
And we hate clingy people so if we are not available to meet and you keep insisting or worst try to hold us accountable for refusing to play with you again, or, we invited you to play and you turned us down(insecure ?) to go play with an old playmate, good luck to you, we're too good at having sex to give you a second chance. We turned down gorgeous couples and played with physically less attractive couples because of their right take on life, flirty, happy, sexy all around great attitude. |
RE: we need a calender on here like sls. close to stl here.
We all do it different. I'm not comfortable fucking someone I don't know. Which is why we keep to our " circle of friends" I have the socials to invite other people in to expand our options. But we play separately so this makes me more comfortable, and less dangerous for myself.
Babs
P.s..clingy sucks |
RE: we need a calender on here like sls. close to stl here.
I agree,
We all do it differently. We had our first good experience in April, with a couple that asked us to stop by their place on the way to the club.
Since that we met a few couples for drinks and we never found a connection. Then Friday we both played with a very pretty girl. Playing separately does help since you don't need a 4 way connection, many times we loved the guy and the lady was a b!tch, and, a few times we liked the lady and he was, well, either too feminine, or uptight. Alex needs to feel comfortable that the guy will not hurt Lulu, Lulu needs to like the lady. |
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