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where is the best place to find a threesome

We've been looking for the best way to find a threesome but having a hard time. Just a question,
What's the best way to find a willing third for your already perfect 2



RE: where is the best place to find a threesome

      Male or Female?
For males you have a great chance on a single's night at a swingers club, here is Fridays.
For females - well, there's a reason they're called "unicorns" although we played with one, again at a club on a single's night........

RE: where is the best place to find a threesome

      First and foremost be honest about what you are looking for they are out there, on here and at the clubs and meet and greets. Pardon the statement but magiriano is right single males are a dime a dozen, single females are rare like finding a unicorn for sure.
Read profiles there are couples who play seperate also. If you are seeking a female you will more than likely go through alot of profiles to find her.
Good luck
Dave and Mary

RE: where is the best place to find a threesome

      They have all ready said it. Swing clubs. Check parties and events. Some sites show those that will attend or might. This list will give you profiles to check.
I'm a single male. I look for couples. I try to get to know the owners and or hosts. A good place to ask and people you should get to know. Bouncers and bartenders. They, hear a LOT! Friends with a bartender, if nothing else, you might end up in bed with them.
My real advice? Don't try to hard. Get to know people and have fun. I have found more beds when I was JUST out to have fun, Then when hunting pussy.
Ask other couples! They might know the one or two to ask.
Take your time. Get to know the people you Might want to play with.

B Bopp

RE: where is the best place to find a threesome

      What he said.
It depends if you want to be "friends first" or like us, reverse date. If chemistry is there we fuck first, then go on a "date" if we are not disappointed. While great for networking, so far we haven't found anyone on swingers sites to play with, it seems it's too much pressure when we meet people 1 on 1(or 2 on 2). The clubs and even Craigslist worked for us, and the best experiences we've had were when we didn't had any expectations and were out to have fun. We were hit on at clubs by people that turned us down online or after the picture exchange. Have no expectations, swingers are still human, with the good and bad, some are genuine, some have a hidden agenda.
Stay informed, read, read, read. Swingersboard.com is a great forum with a lot of info, and here there's a lot of people that are willing to help, ask privately or open a thread and be prepared to sort thru the answers.

RE: where is the best place to find a threesome

      If you are looking for a quick way as it's been said "Clubs" as most people there are open and looking for fun themselves. It is a way to explore in a safe environment. Safe that is if your not all inebriated, looking for the same thing, and not psychos (yeah, clubs are a great way to meet them too).
The best advice I would say is be yourselves, mingle in lifestyle atmospheres whether its online or offline, and be open to the possibilities as they arise. But most importantly both of you need to be comfortable and talk it out as no matter where or how you find your fun...you are still going home with one another.

Good luck,
Sharon

RE: where is the best place to find a threesome

      Not really much to add, we found our first M on another site. We don't go to on premise clubs and the clubs we do attend do not allow single men. I have seen single women but they are few are far between.
There are plenty of single men right here on ST but if it's a single women your looking for I wish you luck in finding a good fit.

You have received some great advice and tips already.

Cheers



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