Looking for a long term lady

Professional couple in our 50s and enjoying the best time of our lives. We've been married for 7 years. We were both previously widowed, so we understand how fragile and short life is. Life is meant to be enjoyed to the fullest. We're into 4x4 trucks, hunting, fishing, shooting, playing pool and darts at local pubs, drinks around the fire. Husband loves cooking, and does nearly all the cooking at home. We also enjoy cooking out, whether at home, a park, or wherever. She smokes cigarettes and vapes, he smokes cheap cigars. We drink occasionally, but not often and not a lot. We enjoy whiskey and beer. We're not into big parties or getting drunk. We're also not into house parties, though we won't say we would never go. We're pretty low maintenance. Zero drama, and we expect the same. We both work from home, and our days are spent in shorts and flip flops. We can also dress up nice for evenings out, but we enjoy the simple life. We live out in the county on an acre, in an area that is a mixture of homes and farmland. We don't live in a show home. Our home is lived in. The husband does all the home repairs, and there is always something on the list. We have 2 dogs who are protective, but behave pretty well once properly introduced. They tend to get attached to our friends. We've been in the lifestyle for 5 years, but have never been real active. We are all about friendship and letting things go from there. For us, the lifestyle is about friendships and connections. We're not into one night stands or bedhopping. We are very discreet about our personal lives. We require discretion in return. At this time we are mostly interested in a lady who would like to share everyday life with us. We're not necessarily looking for a committed relationship, though we are open to it with the right person. We would like to meet a lady who likes to hang out with us at home, go out, and be a true friend. Days shopping with the wife, cuddling while we watch movies, weekend getaways. As far as the "benefits" we are open to a lady who wants just the wife or both of us. We are not looking for a "unicorn" or "toy". While our marriage will always be our top priority, the lady that joins us will be an equal in life. We won't talk up or down to you, or treat you as "less". Anywhere we are is a safe space. You will always be cared for and protected. The husband isn't really into makeup. The wife only occasionally wears makeup, and only gets dressed up fancy if we are planning a nice night out. We do enjoy going to TNG from time to time. When we go out, most times we're in jeans and boots. The ideal lady is the come-as-you-are type. The most important attributes are good attitude, honesty, personality, and sincerity. Everyone likes a pretty face, but that doesn't define who a person is. We are most interested in who you ARE. Age is not important. We're always up for meeting couples for friendship. We're open to the possibility of a friendship that becomes more, but not actively looking for that. We prefer to have at least a little conversation before meeting. Once we decide to meet, you can decide where you would like to meet, for your comfort. We will also provide enough information about ourselves so you can tell a trusted person who you are with and where you are at.

We prefer genuine and honest people with no drama.

We enjoy 4x4 Trucks, hunting, fishing, playing pool, cooking out, drinks by the fire, shooting at the range, and much more.  We drink occasionally. We're partial to whiskey and beer, but enjoy other drinks as well. She smokes cigarettes and vapes, and he smokes cigars. We are not 420, but not a deal breaker if you enjoy it.

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