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Author: JSTUSINSC4FUN "NO means NO," the true Golden rule of swinging but one must apply it to ensure it's effectiveness. When in a situation where un welcomed advances are being made, what do you do? Do you continue to avoid them all night and make excuses to shy away from their advances? The next day do you classify them as being pushy? In some situations with some people you may give hints of non interest and that may be all that is required. But some people simply do not catch on to subtle hints and an emphatic "NO" must be said. In my opinion, someone is being pushy if I tell them "NO" and they still persist. But if I do not say what I mean and expect them to fully understand my hints, am I not allowing them to be pushy? The Golden rule is only effective when applied. We say "NO" in varied situations through our daily lives. Saying "NO" to un welcomed sexual advances in a swinging environment should be no different. Thanks for reading Gin's thoughts. ~ Gin ~ [Post Comments] [See Comments] Warning posting of any content in this page without written permission from the author is is strictly prohibited. |