What are you looking for when you go to a swinger club? What are you hoping to see? What do you NOT wanting to see?
8 years ago
Personally, we`re not into the HEAVY stuff...extreme bondage, peeing, pain, that sort of thing. We look for a relaxing place, nice atmosphere, with nice, friendly, down-to-earth people. We look for a place that is dimly lit...nice music, and the sexual tension can be felt. We always look for people who are new to the lifestyle. They`re the ones that make our lifestyle grow...and they`re willing to learn.
8 years ago
I love this, HankDiane. Thank you for sharing. --btw, Do you find this type of club hard to find? Are most clubs more like sex clubs and/or BDSM clubs than swinger clubs? Are good swinger clubs hard to find?
8 years ago
Well, where we live, we have a few clubs, but they`re out-of-this-world expensive. Like, 200.00 per year membership, plus 40.00 every time you go. And of course, nothing is promised, so we went 2 or 3 times years ago, and decided we`d do better on our own. The times we DID go, they were ok, but actually really tame til around 10pm. After everybody got loaded up on alcohol, things got a little wild. The club we attended wasn`t a lot into the BDSM side of things, but they DID have a BDSM room, which we watched a little while, then walked around and found a nice couple. We didn`t have sex with them, but the guy fingered my wife, and I kissed and fingered his wife. That was the extent of it, and that was one visit. The rest of the visits, people talked a good game, but nothing happened. We party on our own now, finding partners where we can. We`ve had some great times, and this way, we can be a lot more selective.
8 years ago
Perhaps divide the story into installments (1, 2, 3, etc.) and post a thread for everyone to follow, @HankDiane? That might be fun!
8 years ago
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