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Who has the harder time finding a fuck buddy?

Sexualista

Who has the harder time finding a fuck buddy? Men or women? And wht?


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8 years ago

Bestfriends2122

I think we all know it’s harder for a man to find a fwb. Married or single it’s hard to even find a lady just for conversation and friendship. Theses days a man can’t even cock his head sideways without the worries of stepping out of bounds even if he feels she may have an interest in him.


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8 years ago

Nearmis

I think women have a harder time. I do agree that with the climate of sexual harassment, of course a man has reason to fear. As a boss myself I would not have a co-worker or a married man as a fuck buddy. It’s hard to be a single female, asking for or wanting sex....


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8 years ago

Sexualista

I agree that it's harder for women to find a "compatible" fuck buddy. Women have very particular wants that it takes a special guy to fulfill. Guys can find any woman to fuck. Waiting for the guys to comment on this one!


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8 years ago

Blush66thrush66

I agree. Seeing a “Dick Pick Deluge” from time to time in groups in response to the occasional vulva pic bums me out.


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4 years ago

Blush66thrush66

Viva la vulva!


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4 years ago

Realsweet

@sexualista, in you question


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2 years ago

Realsweet

In your question “ Who has the harder time finding a fuck buddy? Men or women? And why?” I think you have to evaluate what is the success rate of men asking women vs women asking the question “Would you like to play?” Resoundingly, I would say that the acceptance of the offer to play is much greater if a women asks a man. Much lower if a man asks a women. Whether that connection is viewed as compatible by the woman, or for that matter of the man, you were different question, but in reflection, I would think that part of the issue of a woman not finding a compatible playmate has something to do with a woman’s high rejection rate. Statistically, if you are looking for a specific thing, but your sample rate is low you’re probably not going to find what you’re looking for. Compatibility is about chemistry as much as anything else and you’re only going to know if you have chemistry if you actually meet and talk and vibe. Men are not the best communicators through messages or even in person, but most women rely on that to figure out whether they’re going to have mind blowing orgasms and the two are incongruous.


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2 years ago

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