Posted in: Ohio Swingers

I am so tired of a bunch of fake ass guys pretending to be couples thinking we are all stupid who are real on this website.

cyclones08

I am so tired of a bunch of fake ass guys pretending to be couples thinking we are all stupid who are real on this website. Do they not understand that one is free


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4 years ago

Nocsomnia

My lady isn't always present but she is always down. We can cam to prove it. Thats a sure way to know that there is 2 parties involved and ready to proceed. Utilize your options. Its the best method for success.


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4 years ago

Nocsomnia

Trust and believe i know that one never knows who they are talking to, but seeing is believing and its hard to fake live feed.


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4 years ago

cyclones08

It has not been anyone that we have spoken to privately long you can pretty much fish them out. It just pisses us off when you continue to have guys that provide porn to as their pictures just trying to see real people


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4 years ago

cyclones08

Just wish all the fake ass dick Yankers will go back to porn and what the couples who are real enjoy the lifestyle


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4 years ago

Nocsomnia

So are the rest of us real mofos. All I know is I request a specific pic like one with both parties showing me the middle finger and if that can't be produced I chalk them up as lonely solo guys. It works.


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4 years ago

cyclones08

I will step back off of my soapbox now I hope everyone has a great evening


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4 years ago

Nocsomnia

Rant and rave! We don't mind. It tends to run solo dudes off. Thats why they are solo. Lmao


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4 years ago

DainandTori

So true


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4 years ago

JezebelAndtheCad

You go cyclone preach it they won't get it but the couples all know what your talking about


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4 years ago

Chasers1981

PREACH.....


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4 years ago

Travisnicky

No body wants to meet just video chat


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4 years ago

Jaypeach69

We’ve had two meetings and enjoyed them both, always looking to meet other couples


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4 years ago

JezebelAndtheCad

The ones that piss me off are the ones who say yeah sure let's meet, get all dolled up then they don't answer when you message them to say in your way.


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4 years ago

AandA4fun

We’ve been ghosted a few times. We’ll be chatting and having a good conversation and mention meeting face to face for drinks to see if we mesh and then nothing. It is very irritating.


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4 years ago

swingcouple89

Same here only been with 3 couples since we started this lifestyle and it seems like it gets harder to find couples that don't flake at the last min


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4 years ago

DRPineapple

We would not do that. Just can not find any.


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4 years ago

Rbfun05

We have experienced the same here and other sites as well. The best way for us to weed out the fakes to verify by phone or group chat/tex. Good luck


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4 years ago

bigcoupleinfl

We have a rule most have pictures with both of you in it. If your a real couple you will have pics we been married 25 years tons of pics with us in it . Easy way to find fakes


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4 years ago

Chasers1981

We switched to Fetlife...


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4 years ago

Chasers1981

More real people and profiles.....to many picture collectors on here....


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4 years ago

bigcoupleinfl

We been in lifestyle 15 years always been this way. House or club party's work easier then trying to find a couple that is real


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4 years ago

CJFantisies20

We hear that. We have been on here and Fetlife for over a year now. Haven’t gotten 1 COUPLE to meet with. Something is always wrong with the female of the profile. Bigcouple is right, parties and clubs


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4 years ago

Chasers1981

I hear thats....


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4 years ago

Chasers1981

My wife is damn near in every video with me.....


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4 years ago

AandA4fun

We want to meet REAL people. We don't care if it ends up with us in the bedroom or not. We want to have good conversations and just meet new couples. We do go to a LS club often but haven't made it to a real house party yet. There's no Lifestyle clubs or even bars that are known places to try to meet others in North AL. Most people we get to actually message us really want to talk until you ask if they want to meet in person then.... They Gone


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4 years ago

Chasers1981

We concur with that.....we are going to a pool party in Parkersburg Aug 14 ......its an older couple hosting but did my homework they seem legit.....we ve been talking direct off site ....they seem cool....you never know....they said to invite more couples i think are respectful....i can give the RSVP to them.....to talk directly.


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4 years ago

Lookin4youMn

I'm wanting to meet right away to stop the waste of time before they ghost


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4 years ago

mnwelt1

Legit cpl here in Tennessee


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4 years ago

Cbtimes2

Ohio


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4 years ago

wildcouple4sex

Seems it's hard to find other couples


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4 years ago

slimsweet

We enjoy that kind of thing but so many people live far away from us so just gets difficult too.


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4 years ago

Bigdog6964

Ladies are fake on here too it’s stupid


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4 years ago

JezebelAndtheCad

Its all trial and error on sites like these. You win some you lose some. Have to be willing to travel some as well. Its not like someone is just going to fall into your lap, it takes work. I find it funny the guys who think swingers are just laying around waiting for them to come fuck us and get mad when we are not interested or have real world responsibilities to attend to. We have met up with a few people/couples and we have traveled to most of them. You have to go after what you want if you want it bad enough, you will. Juat saying.


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4 years ago

MrandMrs0420

We are a real couple too .


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4 years ago

rorys

A few times its happened lol .I just play along until they can't produce RORY AND CRYSTALL STONEY CREEK


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4 years ago

mavisex70

We are real couple


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4 years ago

THEONE696

We are very real


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4 years ago

Coupleforplay2

We are real


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4 years ago

truckent

We are real


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4 years ago

Hrnyfker

We know exactly what you mean.. My lady and i read some responses and laugh. And while genuine lifestylers are rare in my neck of the woods weve met with and had fin with6 couples this past year. Made sime good friends and hope to meet more. Any couples interested in us just holler. Were really easygoing and fun. Promise!


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4 years ago

MrTherapy

It’s probably because of COVID… we took a pause on meet ups because of it… I’m sure once things get back to normal you will have couples knocking down your bedroom door…


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4 years ago

Woodsatnight

We truly are a couple but only looking for a woman, yep….we know, keep laughing.


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4 years ago

2forfunwa

We like to do that to have the two girls talk cut out all them guys trying to act like a couple


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4 years ago

Wjswapcouple

We swap that's why we're on a swingers sight


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4 years ago

RmBthang

We are real, we had a little luck but most of the locals by us seem not to be real or just don’t like what they see. We have more interest from couples long distance away. It’s nice to meet everyone but also sad we can’t find friends closer.


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4 years ago

Sunshinenredd

We are really and most of the comments were on point, we’ve been looking and waiting for months with no real challenge, we want to be in a threesome with a female the wife is picky and I don’t blame her, but it seems this is the wrong site to find single females or females in couples that can play, we don’t normally rant but foreal were is the parties near Nashville?


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4 years ago

bigcoupleinfl

WE ALWAYS ASK FOR PICS OF BOTH OF THEM IN IT


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4 years ago

Fabforever

I agree, so many fakes out there!! Even the women, it doesn’t take a genius to figure them out either. Men do not speak like women!!!


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4 years ago

Us2ts4fun

You can find the fakes on all of the lifestyle sites. But they're fairly easy to figure out that's why we always try to have a conversation on the phone. You get 2 chances and after you fail your blocked .


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4 years ago

Woodsatnight

Well, we just spent a few days communicating with a woman who wanted to meet but in the end wanted to be paid for her time. 😮


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4 years ago

RmBthang

Well that definitely sucks. Why can’t people just be real and have good intentions.


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4 years ago

Lookin4youMn

Just getting people to meet up for an introduction meeting is difficult. Then they cancel or no show. We started going to one of our favorite places so we always get a nice drink or dinner if they are not showing up


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4 years ago

Freshfuncouple

If you put them out there for others to know ,they will get off here pretty quick. Lol. Just has to be done with class.


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4 years ago

JezebelAndtheCad

well I would saythebullshiters are eSy to figure out but I never believe anybody till were all naked and get atleast 10 min into playing g cause shit has went bad while we qwere getting naked its a funny story but wasn't at the time but your not in the life style if you don't have couple ghosts storys and some funny stories were it was not what you hoped for but atleast you got a laugh out of it maybe not for a couple days after you have cooled down lmao


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4 years ago

Us2ts4fun

We've had a couple of those instances,


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4 years ago

Us2ts4fun

Where we have a couple ppl


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4 years ago

Us2ts4fun

Of times when we had a couple or single woman come back to our place and get in the Jacuzzi and nothing else happens but we still have a good time and make new friends.


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4 years ago

Us2ts4fun

Let's be honest, if you get naked with someone, it kind of makes you fee


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4 years ago

Us2ts4fun

Friends. LOL this keyboard is sensitive!


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4 years ago

Trissy

Norman here


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4 years ago

Milarosa

@fucouple99 that happens quite often no matter what site one is on. It's aggravating especially guys sending dick pics. We block them


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4 years ago

tinrob

Or their profile says a couple but only dick pictures on the profile, that is the easy way to weed them out


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4 years ago

Wjswapcouple

We do exactly what we agree to never stood anyone up if you have plans for sex with us consider yourself fucked


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4 years ago

tinrob

We have had so many profiles that say they are a couple, then you start chatting then is oh my wife dosnt play anymore or the big shes out of town right now, those profiles get a automatic block


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4 years ago

Trinzig91

Cyclone we are the same way we like to share pics. But get asked to share private pics, and get none in return or their private pics are of the beach and a car. We are on here cause we love sex and just want to have fun.. we are not Ken And Barbie we are just regular people wanting to enjoy life .. we dont get it and yes we talk to people from far away but couples near us tend to not answer back


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4 years ago

Going4it4fun

Extremely agreeable. Soon as my wife gets back from her mother's we are doing that certificate picture to make sure others know we are real and make sure it's in our private pictures. I never trust people not to take our pictures and try to use them some how.


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4 years ago

Going4it4fun

Lmao. We been lazy and haven't done that certificate picture post with our screen name and date posted. We are horrible procrastinators.


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3 years ago

nativelove6371

One way to check them out is do a voice verify w both parties on the phone..this site is terrible w fake profiles..If you meet us w out your mate..you will be going home the same way you came..Alone..and we let people know w have a ccw for the real stupid ones. Then we blast their info on the site for all to know.


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3 years ago

TravelingFreaks

It also upsets us when people say they'll meet up and then don't that's why we just play it by ear


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3 years ago

Lovefinder923

Oh I love it when the wife doesn't even know that he's on this site!


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3 years ago

Lovefinder923

My wife and I when he get caught having her pictures on here and he didn't tell her.... hahahahahah


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3 years ago

JosEra1025

Even when they want to chat outside of here and ask if wife will participate and rhey make excuses as why she cant. Wife and I have a rule..we all chat or don't chat at all


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3 years ago

Bicouple55378

We only talked to people with verified profiles and makes a lot easier


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3 years ago

JosEra1025

The problem with slme folks is they don't understand the LS. WE who are in the LS have a that no man or woman will ever break. Its as we are one of each other.


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3 years ago

JosEra1025

Have a bond..sorry


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3 years ago

Omegafreakcouple

I agree it's hard to weed out the fakes and everything me and the wife both have access to this account we don't hide anything from each other


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3 years ago

TravelingFreaks

Yeah @Omegafreak we share this account on both of our tablets and we show each other our interest. It works for us. Honesty make our relationship so much stronger we don't have to worry about any cheating we only play together, now once we find some permanent playmates then we may consider playing with specific ones one on one but that's in the future. Stay safe my freaks and cum alot lol


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3 years ago

Shunchi

Agreed.


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3 years ago

Shunchi

My wife and I come as a bundle deal. Many will stop by but don't have their own affairs in order..


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3 years ago

TravelingFreaks

Exactly @ Rashad


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3 years ago

Pbreitkreutz69

Thought there would be more upfront people, everyone is looking for something, just be honest. We also dont Hide anything from each other, want the same from others we chat with. Happy hunting everyone


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3 years ago

JosEra1025

Maybe some people that don't really know what they want or expect from this LS come here to get ideas or find a starting point. We are very young in the LS, but experienced with each other. We played by ourselves which gave us the opportunity to figure out whatvwe wanted before venturing out.


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3 years ago

Chasers1981

Yes...takes a lot of patience with newbies...that's the reason we don't log on as much anymore...if we are just going to be giving away videos when should at least be compensated...so I opened an only fans page....I just can't understand how so many fake profiles are on here


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3 years ago

tinrob

We have been on this site for 9 or 10 years can't count how many fake profiles are on here, yall know they are fake when it's always the wife is out of town or sick or some other bs, at that point we block them.


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3 years ago

Pbreitkreutz69

Real couple here


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3 years ago

RRML4

Get that problem too...


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3 years ago

Bicouple55378

Why don't you just talk to people who have certified profiles


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3 years ago

RjR6572

Agreed !!!! And most are guys just wanting pics to jerk off too because they cant get any on their own


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3 years ago

Dreamcat

There's a lot of fake women on here too. That say they'll join a couple but don't and say they are from a town near by but they are in there next town.


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2 years ago

Dreamcat

We had that happen to us. She said see live in Knoxville but she was closer than that to us. I hate people who lie and think there getting away with it.


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2 years ago

SuRu

Yes, they are wasting time


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2 years ago

Dreamcat

They are some fake women on here too. We found one too


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2 years ago

tinrob

We have found a couple fake female's and so called couples.


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2 years ago

Lovefinder923

Were a real couple


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2 years ago

Dreamcat

We are a real couple but not had much luck on here


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2 years ago

tinrob

We are real and don't mind driving


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2 years ago

tinrob

We haven't had much luck either.


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2 years ago

RRML4

We're tired of couples who claim to be real on their profiles, then don't make the effort to establish a sexual connection, and don't say what's on their minds during meetings.


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2 years ago

Chasers1981

We are real...but slot of fake profiles also...we met this couple at adult bookstore...we vibe and came back to our place had drinks and then....
Watch Video Inside


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2 years ago

nativelove6371

Most all the sites have this going on...even when you put it in your profile that no single males wanted..they still make contact..this has become a serious issue in the lifestyle today..


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2 years ago

tinrob

Came across 2 just this week, some people have no class.


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2 years ago

Shunchi

It's disappointing. Especially those who are putting their significant other on here without their permission


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2 years ago

TravelingFreaks

I know right fucking stupid as hell, but we're very real and we plan to meet you guys really soon


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2 years ago

Sexycouple2713

We had a guy ask to meet for cocktails but not to tell his wife!As if we accidentally showed up there!NO WAY


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1 year ago

tinrob

It is crazy, theis guys think we are oblivious, come on we are not retarded get your stuff together or get your bs on


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1 year ago

Bgarrison1213

What even worse is how ignorant some of these people 99% are single men who bug the hell out of you when you have your status as looking for unicorns or couples with bi women.....I'm so sick and tired of telling these bird brains that they're not unicorns just to have them argue with me....come on if you're going to be on these LS sites at least try to learn the lingo!! Rant over sorry had to get that out there lol


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1 year ago

GaPeach72

As a single blk woman it's just as hard. Some men send some really crazy messages. Many play games too


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1 year ago

Trinzig91

OK we're ready to vent. My wife and I was in conversation with another couple near us and we were talking about meeting then they asked for private pics, then my wife gets a text they would rather go Celibate than hook up with us. I am not going to name them they know who they are . But why would you text someone then say that. A simple were not interested would have worked. Now my wife that is a bbw is so self conscious she don't want to chat on here anymore WTF people we might just drop this site if that's the way people are ...


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1 year ago

dislodgedstorm

I agree because we have been looking and alot of times are just single men or women


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10 months ago

tinrob

What drives us nuts is you get a couple that sends you a like, so you message them and never get a response, at this point we just block them. Folks need to grow up


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10 months ago

Easttxvple

We definitely are real and would love to hook with yall. My wife said yall can do whatever you want with her


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10 months ago

Easttxvple

We are definitely real. And definitely like to play with other couples


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10 months ago

tinrob

What's even funnier is you message back and forth a few time's then they block you, dam all we can say is grow up or get off the site and get out of the lifestyle


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10 months ago

Morbo138

Just a shame you do not live closer. What we see looks fantastic.


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9 months ago

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