New man in Santa Ana, California

I’m someone who genuinely enjoys living well and staying curious about what life has to offer. I value experiences, connection, and the kind of chemistry that feels natural rather than forced. I’m not here to rush anything or to collect empty encounters—I’m here for moments that feel good in the moment and linger afterward. The best connections, in my experience, are the ones that start light and casual but have just enough depth to make you want to come back for more. I’m primarily attracted to women, but I’m open-minded and bi for the right couple when the energy and dynamic feel right. For me, attraction isn’t just about bodies or labels—it’s about how people interact, how comfortable they are with themselves, and whether there’s a shared sense of excitement. I’m drawn to confidence that doesn’t need to be loud, and to people who know how to enjoy themselves without trying too hard. I have a slightly kinky side and I’m comfortable owning that. I enjoy exploring desire in a way that’s respectful, playful, and based on clear communication. I’m not into extremes or shock value for the sake of it—I prefer chemistry that builds, tension that simmers, and moments that feel intentional rather than rushed. I appreciate people who understand that anticipation can be just as exciting as action, and that subtlety often makes things far more intense. Food and wine are real passions of mine. I love discovering great places to eat, sharing a well-cooked meal, and opening a bottle that deserves to be enjoyed slowly. There’s something special about good conversation over food and drinks, especially when it flows easily and starts to wander into more interesting territory. I enjoy cooking as well, particularly when it’s for someone who appreciates the effort and the experience, not just the result. For me, indulgence is about quality, not excess. I also have a strong appreciation for fast cars—the engineering, the sound, the feeling of control and power. I enjoy speed when it’s done right, and I’m drawn to people who understand that same balance between thrill and restraint. That mindset carries over into other parts of my life: knowing when to push boundaries, and knowing when to slow down and savor what’s happening. I tend to be attracted to younger energy—not strictly about age, but about mindset. Adults only, obviously, but I connect best with people who are playful, curious, and enthusiastic about life. I like being around people who still get excited about new experiences, who laugh easily, and who aren’t jaded or overly cynical. That sense of fun and openness is incredibly appealing to me. What I’m looking for is something casual, but meaningful. I’m not searching for anything heavy or overly defined, yet I don’t want something empty either. I like connections that surprise me—the kind where you expect a fun, no-pressure encounter and end up thinking about it longer than you planned. I enjoy that space where things are technically casual, but there’s clearly more there if both people choose to lean into it. If you understand that feeling, we’re probably aligned. I value discretion, honesty, and mutual respect. I believe everyone involved should feel comfortable, appreciated, and excited about what’s happening. I’m not interested in drama, possessiveness, or complicated expectations. This should add something positive to your life, not take away from it. Clear communication matters to me, as does knowing when to speak up and when to simply enjoy the moment. I’m drawn to people who are living life to the fullest in their own way—whether that means travel, good food, great company, or simply knowing how to enjoy the present. I appreciate curiosity, confidence, and a sense of humor. I like people who can be flirty without being crude, open-minded without being reckless, and grounded without being boring. I’m not chasing perfection, and I’m not interested in pretending to be something I’m not. I’m confident in who I am, comfortable with what I enjoy, and open to seeing where the right connection might lead. Sometimes the best experiences are the ones you didn’t plan on wanting more of—but do anyway. If you’re relaxed, adventurous, and looking for something that feels easy, exciting, and just a little unpredictable, we might get along very well. If this resonates and you find yourself curious rather than hesitant, that’s probably a good sign.

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