Okanagan pleasures

I tried to refrain from giving a description of myself as I feel it close to impossible to NOT resemble a typical dating profile. But this is no typical dating site is it now 😂 so I will offer a small personal detail about myself.My sexuality took many years to not only understand...but many years also for me to accept as a part of who I am...and to treat that part of who I am as a beautiful thing.I believe I secretly sabotaged my last relationship but regardless of placing blame...I did everything to not lose the friendship. I succeeded. :)I realized I need to embrace my sexuality as part of me...and the only reason any of it felt wrong in anyway was due to the shame I carried with it.I learned about pleasure before I knew anything of love and even at that I first treated love as something I could only earn through pleasure...I really like the idea of what I thought love was...and I wasDetermined to master that art, because I believed was tied directly to being able to attain this "love" thing...which I desired with an unrealistic understanding...I learned how to listen to the female body using only touch...I taught myself that not all women orgasm from the same stimulation....I taught myself how to induce a "squirt" (it sounds ridiculous in this context lol) I learned that I enjoyed encouraging an overwhelming orgasm sometimes with just my fingers.But I was to naive to see that many women...wanted and most were not getting (at least to some degree) proper reciprocation. I conditioned myself as a pleaser, neglecting much for myself...not realizing I was missing half the experience.Anyways...as is much the way in life...I had to learn for myself and it was not always easy.I've come now to accept...that I'm a sexual deviant...and that's ok...I know what I like and I still LoVE making a woman come...but I also love an eager female with matched passion to please.I'm basically looking now to reestablish my sexuality and sate my sexual appetite...I love joining couples...I have a good amount of experience in it...and also experience with threesomes in general...I did mention I love to make a woman vibrate well isn't cocks better than ?! LolIt's fun period but I prefer the simplicity of a couple because it's not likely im working with a guy who's gunna be a complete pussy...and if the boyfriend kinda is...then I say cuck time! LolI've said enough already so I'll wrap up soon but a little more about me.Trust, respect and honesty. I will always be honest...and if I respect you...i will ensure you have my trust. I want to share a connection with person or a couple not just fwb but to engage with like minds...as I'm always learning about myself and people in general.I love taking lead...I also love taking instructions...tell me what you believe you want and I'll be happy....to deliver.

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