New man in Watertown, Wisconsin

Curious bull, Hey there. I’m in my late-30s, 5’10”, athletic build from years of lifting and staying active. Broad shoulders, strong hands, trimmed beard, and the kind of deep voice that tends to carry across a room. Most people would describe me as confident without being loud, respectful but direct, and very much in control when the moment calls for it.For a long time I identified strictly as straight. Great sex life with women, no complaints, no curiosity that ever felt urgent enough to act on. Then something shifted. Not dramatically—just a slow, undeniable pull. I started noticing men in a way I never had before: the line of a jaw, the way certain guys move, the low confidence in their posture when they know what they want. Porn didn’t help. Neither did late-night thoughts that kept circling back to the same questions.So here I am: proudly and unapologetically bicurious, leaning hard into the “bi” part and ready to explore the rest. I’m not looking to replace what I already love with women—I’m looking to add something new. I’m drawn to the idea of being the bull in a dynamic where everyone feels desired and safe. I enjoy taking the lead, giving clear direction, reading the room, and making sure the energy stays intense and connected.Open-minded, discreet, tested, and communicative. I respect boundaries, I communicate mine clearly, and I believe the hottest experiences happen when everyone is genuinely excited to be there.If you’re a couple (especially with a curious or bi-leaning partner) or a guy who’s been thinking about inviting a confident third, send me a message. Let’s talk. No pressure, no rush—just (or ) adults seeing where the chemistry takes us.

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