I'm looking for an ENM connection. FBW is a bare minimum. I'm not really into the ONS thing. I'm very clean, vasectomized, recently tested and DD free. I'm looking for straight or bi cis-women that can appreciate me with the affection I'm missing. I'm open to a polycule or being a unicorn. A closed group would be my preference because I prefer it raw but will bag it if necessary. Safe is good/raw feels better, so get tested and we can play freely. FBW to me means we want to hangout beyond just the sex; and I need an emotional bond with at least person in the couple or group for anything sexual to happen. That said, I'm no prude. MFM or FMF or soft swap/full swap, whatever... It's all been done and I'm good in any format. - Segway- I'm a Dad to kids and in a domestic partnership with their mom for years but haven't been together for a longtime. I've even been celibate for over a year. I'm not looking for anyone to step up as a stepparent, but you should know about them before you meet them when you come over for dinner, drinks or a movie in my man cave.

I use to swing more in my 's. My GF at the time was a stripper and porn actress. I don't get jealous at all. I've been starving myself of affection for years because the mother of my kids wanted monogamy and is part Vulcan... so now I'm jonesing something fierce for a clean but open woman... I'm fairly vanilla lol. A hug, steak and a BJ to fruition will do me just fine. Need a nd in a spit roast? Giggidy. It's been awhile since I've done a DP and not my favorite but I can get into it if she really wants it. I use to pride myself on my cunnilingus skills. I will use my cock or my mouth on her, anywhere and anyhow she likes. I request that y'all come to play fresh & showered for me though, and plan ahead with a cleansing enema if the back door is your thing or you want to try something new for the first time... we can even start in the shower by cleaning each other.

I play guitar and sing, would love to find people to jam with or hit up a dive-bar karaoke. Bowling or pool is fun. I love to cook and I will take over a kitchen to feed your army and their families, if you let me. I've cooked for my friends' weddings. I like sailing between May and October out of Frenchman's Bay. My little 'sailboat sleeps adult couples but it's a little tight and definitely more camping than luxury yachting... but sundowner drinks and BBQs on the deck are fun.

I may "over-ask" for consent and I will generally announce I'm about to make a move before I make it, until I'm comfortable with the dynamic of our thing. I've been alone for a longtime and the last time I made myself available to anyone, dating apps didn't even exist so please bare with me while I adjust.

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