I'm looking for an ENM connection. FBW is a bare minimum. I'm not really into the ONS thing. I'm very clean, vasectomized, recently tested and disease free. I'm looking for straight or bi cis-women that can appreciate me with the affection I'm missing. I'm open to a polycule or being a unicorn but it has to be a closed group. I'm a long term kind of guy and I need an emotional bond with at least person in a group for anything sexual to happen. That said, although I'm straight, I'm no prude. MFM or FMF or MF swinging with other MF... It's all been done and I'm good either format. I'm a Dad to kids and in a domestic partnership with their mom for years but we're no longer a couple and haven't been for more than a year. I'm not looking for anyone to step up as a step parent, but you should know about them before you meet them when you come over for dinner, drinks or a movie on the big screen in my man cave.

I use to swing more in my 's. My GF at the time was a stripper and porn actress. I'm not jealous at all. I've been starving myself of affection for years because the mother of my kids wanted monogamy and is part Vulcan. We did the couples therapy because it affected my mental health and we've had the ENM talk and now, I'm essentially single, and poly-solo but in a domestic partnership.

I play guitar and sing, would love to find people to jam with or hit up a dive-bar karaoke. Bowling or pool is fun. I love to cook and I will take over a kitchen to feed your army and their families, if you let me. I've cooked for my friends' weddings. I like sailing between May and October out of Frenchman's Bay. My little 'sailboat sleeps adult couples but it's a little tight and definitely more camping than luxury yachting... but sundowner drinks and BBQs on the deck are fun.

I may "over-ask" for consent and I will generally announce I'm about to make a move before I make it, until I'm comfortable with the dynamic of our thing. I've been alone for a longtime and the last time I made myself available to anyone, dating apps didn't even exist so please bare with me while I adjust.

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