Upstate NY, can travel

Im a young(ish) man, in a poly relationship with a woman for several years now. We date separately but have entertained the idea of swinging with the right couple. Thats not why I'm here though. I want to explore my bi-side, by having a 3 way with a bi couple. More specifically.

I have participated in several of my fantasies over the years now, but never this specific . I have always shied away from engaging in any sexual activity with a man directly. For a multitude of reasons that feel trivial to list here. Simply, Im ready now to suck a hot dick in a way.

I know it says "be classy & keep it clean." But what I'm looking for is sexual in nature. And I think healthy and good sex is heavily rooted in our ability to talk about it openly. So this is the part where I say explicit sexual things, please move on if it does not interest you to hear or know such things:I want to suck a dudes dicks while a cutie with nice tits sucks mine, and vice versa. I have ** interest in butt sex of any kind, (seriously. Not interested.) but oral sounds hot and Ive never given a blowjob before, but I have a feeling I can deliver ;) . And I LOVE big natural tits so much. Getting to kiss and suck on some big titties while a dude sucks me off and I jerk him or she sucks him, that sounds wonderful. Or, any combination of those things. I get tested for stds regularly, and will do so again before meeting anyone. (End explicit content)That said, these things require trust and I want to do this with a couple im comfortable with and feel safe around. If you are extra macho and dominant towards me or pushy I will likely not be interested. And I do want it to be a THREE way. Not just 2 of us while the other is left out. (Unless they need a break or breather or lose interest or whatever, thats fine of course :) ) But I'll likely back out too if thats the case. I do very much enjoy some ganja, i find it increases my sexual pleasure significantly, but if you dont partake that is completely fine also, but I will definitely hit my own pipe once or twice before we get started. I enjoy some flirting and report first. I like asking questions and the more verbal confirmation the more comfortable and safe Ill feel. (Consent consent consent!) Getting back to some other things I like....less explicit... this isnt needed or required but I am a big fan of being teased sexually by women, but only if their intent is to egg me on or challenge me! Regarding men, and threeways, I have not explored teasing within this dynamic yet, but I am willing to discuss it, (and quite interested in the possibilities really.) In general, I am not a sub, and do not like to be dominated, with very rare exceptions. Say hi, :) talking about normal interests can also help me get comfortable with someone too. To break the ice. For me, my 'go to' interest are movies and philosophy. i can talk about those things anywhere, any time and I will feel more at ease. But jumping right into sex talk is fun too. Something flirty, sassy, genuine. ;) I hope to hear from some of you cuties out there!.

Not interested in buttstuff. If you want to engage in that with your partner(s) while im around thats fine with me, I just won't be directly involved with it.

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