New man in Riverside, California

Just an aging older man who’s a little confused with my sexual ideology, desires and fantasy. Just trying to find my way. Looking for like minded people to converse and connect with.

At one point I thought swinging sounded like so much fun (still does) the lifestyle, but after gauging my arousal from experiences, I’ve come to realize that I like to watch more then participate. Weird. The surge of excitement that came from watching the flirting, the build up of physical contact. Knowing what the other person wants to do with my significant other. And the pleasure that came from helping facilitate the experience. Talk about sexual overload…POV I guess. The reconnect too OMG.!!! I’m hooked needless to say and want to experience more.

On the look out for some easygoing chill people to engage with that may have been at this crossroad before. I know my interests are a little different, but would like to hear your story. As a single male I really don’t have anything to use as trade (kidding). But to message and talk to people with similar interests without the fear of judgement is a start.

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