New man in Beaverton, Oregon

I’ve always been a naturally curious person, especially when it comes to the ways people connect, build trust, and share intimacy. Over the years, that curiosity has led me to explore relationship dynamics that fall outside traditional structures. Rather than viewing intimacy as something limited to a conventional -on- model, I’ve found meaningful experiences through engaging with couples and open-minded partners who value honesty, communication, and the freedom to explore together. My interest in alternative lifestyles isn’t about collecting experiences for the sake of novelty; it’s rooted in a genuine desire to understand the many dimensions of human connection, including the emotional, psychological, and social aspects that emerge when people share a space of trust. I’ve had meaningful experiences with both couples and women within couples, and I’ve appreciated the unique energy each situation brings. What stood out most wasn’t just the excitement of something unconventional but the depth of communication and mutual respect required. When a couple decides to invite another person into their dynamic, especially another male, it reflects a strong sense of self-awareness and a desire to explore together rather than apart. It shows confidence, openness, and an understanding that intimacy can be multifaceted. I find that incredibly appealing, because it means everyone involved is there intentionally, not accidentally. I believe that when a couple chooses to share that part of themselves with someone else, it’s not simply about fulfilling a momentary impulse; instead, it often reflects a deeper wish to expand their emotional and physical experiences as a unified team. They’re not looking to replace anything within their relationship but to add a new layer of connection, curiosity, and sometimes adventure. That kind of openness requires maturity, communication, and trust, and those are qualities I deeply respect. I would love to be part of that kind of dynamic again— where all people are aligned in their intentions and interested in building a shared experience based on respect. For me, the foundation of anything meaningful—no matter how unconventional—begins long before any intimate moments happen. Chemistry isn’t something you can instantly create; it forms naturally through conversation, shared humor, and a sense of comfort. That’s why I value the process of meeting first, talking openly, and allowing the energy to develop on its own. Whether it’s grabbing a cup of coffee, enjoying a few drinks together, sharing stories, or simply spending time getting to know another, setting the tone early matters. It’s during those moments that you discover whether you genuinely connect and whether the dynamic feels balanced for everyone involved. I’m a believer in the idea that laughter and ease are essential. If we can sit together, relax, talk openly about expectations, share some jokes, and feel that natural flow of conversation, then the foundation is already forming. The goal isn’t to rush into anything but to create an environment where all people feel seen, heard, and comfortable expressing what they want, what they’re curious about, and where their boundaries are. That honesty is what builds real trust, and trust is what allows everyone to feel safe enough to explore further. I also think it’s important that the couple feels confident in themselves and in the strength of their relationship. That inner stability makes the experience more enjoyable for everyone, because it removes insecurity and allows the moment to unfold with openness instead of tension. In my past experiences, the most enjoyable and rewarding situations were the ones where the couple communicated clearly with each other and with me. When everyone shares their thoughts freely, whether about comfort levels, boundaries, interests, or emotions the entire dynamic becomes much smoother and more natural. Ultimately, I’m not interested in anything purely transactional or rushed. What I’m looking for is a genuine connection built on communication, curiosity, and enjoyment. If the of us take the time to talk, get comfortable, laugh together, and truly hit it off, then everything else has the potential to unfold naturally. Once that trust is in place, the experience becomes much deeper than a simple encounter—it becomes something memorable, respectful, and mutually fulfilling. At the end of the day, alternative lifestyles aren’t about breaking rules; they’re about expanding the ways we allow ourselves to connect with others. They require honesty, maturity, and a willingness to explore not only new dynamics but also new parts of ourselves. If we can form that kind of connection—built on communication, trust, mutual respect, and shared energy—then I believe the experience can be incredibly meaningful for everyone involved. And if all of that feels right between us, then yes, letting loose and exploring together becomes something natural, exciting, and authentic.

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